am I being a ridiculous gf?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by DixieLove, Jul 11, 2007.

  1. DixieLove

    DixieLove Member

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    I am pretty lenient when it comes to my old man watching porn. He doesn't do it very often, but it doesn't bother me. Let me add that he is VERY computer

    illiterate. I told him NO PORN on the computer. I had to take my computer to a shop awhile back and get it fixed because of viruses. I don't want anymore.

    So I look on the history because I needed to find a site I had been on earlier. He had been on porn. I was like "hey remember no porn on the computer. you can borrow videos off of your buddies or rent them or whatever but no computer porn."

    A week goes by. I click on history again. I swear I wasn't checkin up on him. I just needed an earlier site again. Guess what......more porn. I put notes up on the computer and on the fridge. NO PORN ON THE COMPUTER PLEASE =)

    And guess what. I got home from work yesterday and he had been on it again. He blames it on myspace. He clicks on girls pictures and he gets porn. (He's been going to way more than one page within one website) Also......he searched on google for porn.

    Am I being ridiculous for being mad because he keeps doing something that I repeatedly ask him not to?
     
  2. floydianslip6

    floydianslip6 Senior Member

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    whose computer is it?
     
  3. mlee27

    mlee27 Member

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    not at all you have asked him nicely to not use the computer for porn and he is blatantly ignoring your requests....i could see if he had no other means of porning but like you said rent a movie or borrow one...and i don't think it matters who's computer it is, if it is giving viruses to your computer he should understand or better yet when you do get a virus give your bf the bill.
     
  4. DixieLove

    DixieLove Member

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    The computer is mine.
     
  5. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    my husband got a virus from looking at porn on my computer. fucking irritating. but he doesn't usually. i'd say you're not being ridiculous.
     
  6. DixieLove

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    thanks. i just feel like i am being a nag.....but i feel like he should be LISTENING.
     
  7. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    the endless struggle. no joke. it never stops. he probably does think you're a nag. that's just how men think.
     
  8. Haid

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    You are being reasonable. Tell him to buy himself a computer to do what he wishes with.
     
  9. *°GhOsT°LyRiC°*

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    I actually had the same problem! our computer crashed because of porn. And I would look up the history and my hub would actually erase the history! I finally told him, Our computer crashed right after you looked at porn sites, its bothering me I want you to stop it!!! and he stopped. Our computer runs great now :) give him more sex, my hub would only get on porn when we werent having any for a while. tell him if he wants some, your there, forget looking at pictures!
     
  10. legend 1967

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    :banghead: Perhaps it would be best to assist him in acquiring his own inexpensive computer for the vicarious entertainment he enjoys.
     
  11. DixieLove

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    thanks everyone. I don't feel so bad for being upset now
     
  12. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    time to password protect your computer. and yeah, liek someone else suggested, you can go buy a cheapo used computer to use for porn, it just has to be able to run an internet browser and some antispyware programs and it can be the porn puter
     
  13. jacobfredjo

    jacobfredjo Senior Member

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    your not being ridiculous at all. Most girls would probably throw a huge fit if their dude was looking on porn "on their computer". Looking at porn is perfectly natural, but to IGNORE your nice requests (as you have put them lol) is weak sauce. And yes, more sex for him, that will probly work lol. would for me
     
  14. deram_scholzara

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    You could get a mac... people are too lazy to make viruses for macs.
     
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