Am i weird?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Old_Mate, Sep 6, 2004.

  1. Old_Mate

    Old_Mate Member

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    Hi Boys and Girls,

    I was brought up by my single mum and my sister so i have been around women all my life, and i reckon i understand them very well, but because of this upbringing i also feel like a girl. Im very submissive and id never stand up for myself. I could never play sport or anything cause if i get hurt id cry lol. I dont know, i think at the core i blame my mum for turning out to be such a sissy because im sick of having no confidence and im so self aware of my faults and i pretty much abuse myself in my head when i make mistakes. I can never keep a decent relationship because girls seek a self confident guy and i let the girl push me around and do what she wants.

    im just after some opinions etc, has anyone else been/going through this? will it pass? i just need some answers because im starting to question my sexuality...

    thanks all
     
  2. Juggalo4ever

    Juggalo4ever KingoftheChubbyGirls

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    ep thats how i was, but i went crazy and now I stand up for my self and beat the shit outa people for no reason (not girls they still have their way with me)
     
  3. Sailor

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    I have same background as you, and I've learned that you have to work on your self-confidence, as it doesn't show up unless it's invited. Search the internet for books on how to build up self confidence. You could also start working out. It's well known that if you like the way you look, then it's easier to be self-confident. I recently started working out (not like those no-neck bodybuilders) so that I myself would be happy with the way my body looks. Just the fact that I'm trying to make my body look better, has allready given me so much more self esteem. Good luck with whatever you decide to try : )
    By the way... Beating people up is not a good idea.
     
  4. Vicar_in_a_Tutu

    Vicar_in_a_Tutu Member

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    Some girls go for shy guys
     
  5. kppdlevel1

    kppdlevel1 Member

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    You can work on your self confidence all you want. It's when you say that you're questioning your sexuality that I think you're queerer than a 3 dollar bill.
     
  6. Old_Mate

    Old_Mate Member

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    Its weird, Im not sexually attracted to males, Females turn me on so much, i love just going down on chickies for ages its get me so horney. But the problem is i can never cum from sex with a girl. And sometimes when i masturbate i finger myself. Is that enough evidence that im gay and just havent relised it yet or something?
     
  7. sgoddess28

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    thats not weird and no it doesnt make you gay.you've been around women most of your life so maybe your just really in tune with your body.......like most women. fingering yourself doesnt make any man gay.its kinky,to each his own
     

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