hey i'm not even sure how anyone could help me out with this, just offer some advice or personal experience i guess for a year and a half i've been with my boyfriend and we've had a very intense relationship, sometimes too intense, seeing eachother practically every day for a year and a half and, even though we've always managed to sort things out, having alot of fights... anyway now we've both moved, we're living two hours away from eachother so we probably won't see eachother very often... thing is, i'm scared that even though he loves me (i trust that) he might find the new freedom of being apart stronger... we're both pretty young... has anyone ever been in a situation like this? i'm worried our new seperate lives will break us apart... thanx for reading -shrimpgirl
hell, i don't really know much about anything like this but i'll give it a shot. thing with being young is everythings new, especially with such a complicated thing as 'love'. Personally, I think it would depend what you want from the relationship. For example, a relationship thats mostly physical probably wouldn't work out well as a 'long distance' relationship. If its more of a mental connection than a physical relationship than its quite likely to work out. If its an 'intense' relationship than its even possible that being two hours away from each other could improve the relationship, personal space and time alone and that. And when you think about it really, two hours isn't that much of a long time.
thanx malachi you've got a pretty optimistic interpretation, kinda what i need i guess, been depressed lately and can't seem to see a bright side like that (you made my day) peace -shrimpgirl
