My boyfriend is getting jelous because i like a soccer player. he came to my room yesterday and he said "whats up with all the posters of this guy?" i told him that this guy is my favorite soccer player, and he told me to stop considering Nakamura(my favorite soccer player) to be my favorite player and for me to stop liking Nakamura.. i say "why" and he replies "do it, or we're breaking up." i dont want to break up with my bf and i dont want to forget about Nakamura, who I have loved and respected ever since i was a little girl. help please...
I'd break up with a guy that got jealous over a poster. I know thats not what you wanted to hear but thats what I would do.
Sounds rather silly to issue an ultimatum over a soccer player. You both really need to talk. However, (and I'm not criticizing you, just sharing my thoughts), you don't just have posters of Nakamura in your room. Your Myspace has the guy's image in the background, your username says soyalovesnakamura... I can understand why your boyfriend is feeling jealous. I'm not saying that he's right, I'm not saying that he's being reasonable. I'm just saying try to see it from his perspective. And try to remember that emotions are irrational - there's no logic, no right vs. wrong.
Whats with all the semi-naked, sexually suggestive photos of you on myspace, too? Hardly screams out "im in love and want a stable relationship with this man", does it?
Geez, this is sure sounding fishy. My first instinct was to say break up with him, because if he's literally getting jealous over some stupid posters, that's pretty lame. But if there's more to it like what others have posted here....then...you need to do some soul searching... I've always told my significant others that if Johnny Depp came into my life, I'd have to drop them like a hot tamale...he'd be my "free pass" for sure. But I also don't have posters up all over my room of him and all over my myspace... So....*shrugs*
Was he joking? Cause if he wasn't hes a real KNOB. But then again you pics may have a thing to do with it, maybe he just figures the posters an easier thing to get mad at.
some guys get pissed and say shit. Say "thats your loss then, bc it's not the way you think" (in a calm and loving tone) and say "if thats reason for you to break up with me than do so." I bet you it's just a threat. But if it's not, don't get mad at me, he just might be a prick, or carrying abuse over from a past relationship. Emotional outbursts like that have more to do with the past, and perhaps present, than the future. Me and my fiance have had plenty of emotional outbursts and I've learned to not take them for truth value. But thats not as bad as all the guys out there that have half naked or fully naked chicks on their walls. Thats a big turn off for me. I'd never make out with a guy under a playboy pinup of whoever they like. At least soccer players are just soccer players. does he have any pinups? why is he insecure?
