do you ever flirt with straights?

I only intentionally do if they start it. For the last few months that is happening more than it used to. I have dyed my hair very blond & it has mad a difference. It may not be true that blondes have more fun but I can attest that they have more opportunity. Well at least it's more likely if your a blond that the see as female. I am farther along im my transition now & I do feel the objectification that James Q is talking about. I'm still flattered by it & mostly find it kind of amusing.

If one of these guys get past staring at my legs, ass, or breasts enough to talk with me & if they are comming on to me I figure that at least they have shown interest. I have been a little cautious if there is a situation where they could attempt to get farther. Last week I was camping at Proud Lake (love that name) near Detroit. Not far from our campsite was a fairly cute guy who always wore a cowboy hat & never a shirt. He had a bit of a beer belly but it was a cute one. He was really good at fliritng & ;aying it on so much even my daughter noticed it. Well, what's a girl to do? I started subtlly. Purposly doing things that would cause me to bend over so he could se my assets at their best. Tossing my hair. When I put lotion on my legs & "had" to raise the hem of my skort to get it on my upper hips his cute blue eyes nearly poppoed out of their sockets. It wasn't long afer that that he decided it was time to walk his dog & for some reason he just "had" to go by our campsite. Well that went on for the rest of the time we were there but it wasn't until we were packing up that I really let him in so to speak. It was great fun. I do think that towards the end he started to figure out that he was dealing with a T-girl but he was a gentleman until the time that we were packed up & he tipped that cowboy hat as we parted our ways.

 

It's just that attitude that makes our world a sick place. There is no reason for violence in this, you creep. Get some help! You can't go around thinking that it's OK to beat people up because you aren't comfortable with their sexuality. I guarentee that every female that flirts with you isn't planning on taking you to bed. Flirting isn't always to get laid. Besides it is a two way street. If you are flirting back it's all part of the game. Go find a therapist & grow up.

 

The one about the cowboy.

 

I didn't realize I was bi until I was in my mid 20's. It's a seperate thing but you mentioned cross dressing so... I'll add that I didn't figure out that I was transgendered until I much later,

 

In fact most transvestites are completely heterosexual. Sexual preference & gender identity are very seperate things as is sexual preference & cross dressing.

 

If you weren't homophobic it wouldn't creep you out.

 

yes, I do sometimes, depending on the guy, is he wouldnt be bothered, and he is opened, then why not?!

 

I try not to, if i do it is unintentional. I respect everyone's sexuality and at my age I understand that not everyone is secure in theirs, hence all the hatred of gay people. I flirt with some of my friends for laughs though because i know it makes them uncomfortable, but they arnt going to hate on me for it.

 

You sure, are easily scared. If a BJ offer scares the shit out of you, what would you do, if you saw a big dude with a big tool, telling you to go down on it...

Look, I am not advocating violence or anything. But you ought to learn the fact that we live in a free world and that people will come up with all kinds of proposals and ideas. That's why, there is a word: NO. Nope, thank you, but NO, thank you.

Just like all the str8 dudes are not necessarily rapists, all the gay dudes are not running around offering to blow your dick. One reportedly did. Cool, write it off as one of those funny things in your life and a rare compliment, you got.

KD

 

call it strange but i dont know because i never consider myself to flirt with other boys but one of my m8's told me ive got a playful attitude and i can act a bit gay sometimes 0.0 he dosnt even know and i didnt sound like a joke

 

I flirt with straight chicks all the time...and they laugh because they know its just flirting...and some of them flirt back !!

 

I love flirting with straight girls....

 

no. I generally respect that they are straight and this will not waver unless they give me reason to think otherwise.

 

Only by mistake.

 

Meh, I do it quite often, usually the guys who'll get all pissy about it tend to be the ugly fuckers who think you're hitting on them because you're in the same room as them. Pretty much anyone else can handle it, and dudes like to be reminded that they're gorgeous; it's not like the ladies ever tell them.

It seems kinda lame for someone to get offended by it. I mean, even in the "if you didn't know, that's cool, but if you do know, IT MUST STOP IMMEDIATELY OR I WILL BE VERY ANGRY" way, it's totally uncool. If someone feels uncomfortable with being flirted with socially (obviously I draw the line at shit like rubbing your erect hard-on against someone's thigh, etc., just like you would between gays and gays) then that's kinda lame on their part, n'est pas?

 

I hardly ever flirt with anyone. And in this conservative area, flirting with a straight guy would be a big mistake. So I prefer to not flirt at all.

 

No, i feel it's a waste of time.

 

You only get it from straight guys that have never had to handle that situation with a woman, let alone a guy

 

I flirt with everyone in a really innocent kind of way, I think. Whenever I meet a guy, the first thought that goes through my mind is "so, which side is HE on?" I try to read the situation, find out where he stands and go from there. Because I generally have zero gay friends, I tend to be more affectionate and flirty with the straight ones that aren't really put off by it. This could mean anything from lots of compliments to hugging to cheek kisses to sharing a bed. The second he's uncomfortable, it stops. Usually there isn't a problem.

Wow, my friends let me get away with a lot.

 

I don't.