I need everyones advice

whats up everyone i got a bit of a dilemma here...im 22 and ive been smokin for like 6-7 years now and my parents (moreso my mom) always suspect it here and there. my dad is quiet about it cuz hes pretty relaxed about weed, but my mom is extremely conservative (barely drinks curses or anything). i smoke every day, and yes technically i am mentally addicted but i think of mental addiction as a tricky term because if u look at it like that, i am mentally addicted to music too amongst other things, smoking is just something i like to do..but anyway lately i havent been really goin out as much because my friends havent been around too much lately, but i still like to smoke everyday so sometimes at night i will take a ride or somethin but my parents always hear me go out every time i leave for some odd reason..so i am ready with an excuse which is usually im picking up a friend from work or something stupid like that..but the other night i had nothing to do but ended up goin to a friends house to smoke at like 1:30 am and i stayed there till like 3...next morning my mom was all bitching saying y do i need to go out every night and that she hopes im not going out cuz i need to smoke pot every night...

i dont just go out to smoke though, id rather smoke with people then by myself, but if there is no one to smoke with i still like to smoke a blunt at the end of the night..

so my question is does anyone else have the same problem? i feel like i am trapped and i cant do what i wanna do and i think its unfair that i cant simply smoke a blunt if i want to...i have very strong beliefs about weed which i know my parents will never understand...my mom will just write it off as me having a problem so theres no point in even trying to reason with her..but i dont think its too much to ask to just be able to smoke..and i dont do any other drugs i barely even drink...what does everyone think i should do? anyone have a good excuse i can give to say i go out for a bit if i take a ride at 12am or whatever? i cant smoke in my room its too close to theirs and i get paranoid, cant smoke in the yard cuz my dad always wakes up and he might see me..and honestly i hate taking rides but gotta do what u gotta do, if anyone has any better suggestions though please let me know...thanks in advance!!!!

i should also add that when my mom did catch me like 5 years ago or so, she cried...so that gives u an idea of what im going up against...

 

Stop living with your parents.

 

@sodacan
for many people (myself included) leaving home is not an option because of school or an area with high rent. if he wanted to he could have left home years ago.
@dilated
im in a similar situation as urs and i just keep my smoking to myself. sometimes i smoke with my friends but other times i just open the window in my room and smoke or ill go outside after my parents are asleep and smoke. my only advice would be to try and explain it again or just keep hiding your smoking from the rents. btw i think that going for random drives at night is probally a dead give away.

 

Your a grown man now, an adult. Tell them that it isnt any of there business what your doing.

 

two step and let yo shoulder leaaaan.
dro i'm clean in dis biiitch

 

you are seriously a fag

 

Ain't nothin' but a G thang, baaaaabay!
Two loc'ed out nigga's so we're craaaaazay!
Death Row is the label that paaaaays me!
Unfadable, so please don't try to fade this

 

That song is a classic but you are still a virgin for life.

 

why do you hate me so much? :troll:

 

dpends on the soicumstances

 

why can't we be friends
why can't we be friends? :chill: :afro:

 

/\ lmfao

dude tell ur parents that you smoke weed wether they like it or not, or when your mom is sleepin tonight shove a blunt in her mouth, then she will change her views on weed.

 

are u laughing @ me canibus420????????????????????????????????? :afro:

 

soda can is a joke.

 

i had the same problem but now i live alone
while you live with your parents you will always have the problem
unless you get a girlfriend that smokes , and say that you are always with her

 

When encountered by parents:

Step one: Insert joint into mouth, inhale

Step two: Raise middle finger and hold up in air whilst inhaling

Step three: repeat 1 & 2 as much as needed

 

^ROFLMAO dude, if you really are 22, i think its time you move out. In my opinion, if you are living off of you parents, then you should obide by thier rules.

 

dude your 22, tell your parents to fuck off, they cant control you anymore. this is one of the most pathetic things ive ever heard, 16 or 17 i kinda understand, but 22, wtf?

 

no man i just like ur song selection

 

instead of taking the car out, go for a walk or something sneak out of the house. My mom also hates when i smoke pot. Same with my brother. they are starting to disrespect me more for doing it and its not a big fucking deal and thats wat pisses me off.