Well theres this guy, hes not like most guys, hes 15, same age as me, but he doesn't beleive in sex before marriage and hes really really nice. Well Lets just say I have never met him on person, only ever seen him in pictures and on webcam. But I can easily meet him if I want to he's only like 1 hour away. Well He had this girl he liked but she broke his heart. And then one day he said he loved me. But then he said maybe he thought he only loved me as a friend? And now, a few days later he has just said to me erm my friend is here and I have to show her out and ... I think I love her... This broke my heat. My life suddenly stopped, I don't think he knows how much I feel about him. But I want him to be happy. But I really love him. WHAT do I doooo?!!??!
I'd say just leave it. You can be friends with him and all, but a relationship after that is Bad News Bears. Here are my reasons: 1&2. You met him online, never in person before. Not a good sign, in my opinion, especially at 15. An hour away may seem like a short distance, but at 15 you can't drive. I don't know how you are with your parents, but I don't think I could have ever explained to my mother that I needed a ride to meet a girl I met online. 3. He said he loved you and then that he loved someone else, and he didn't even know what it meant when he said it to you! He's confused, and starting any type of relationship would just cause problems with that. 4. You're young. And speaking from personal experience, when I was 16 I was in the same boat you were, looking at an online thing and trying to make it real, and for me there was nothing there, even though I thought at the time that I was in love. There it is, take it or leave it, but I'd have to say that you just abstain from a relationship with him and meet someone closer.
hes confused and far away, i think you can do a bit better than someone far away whose gonna toy with your emotions like that
ahhh what is love ......hooking up on line and through webcams....????what ever happened to "dating" is there no one near you that you could"love"?just be careful of guys who say they love you too soon or to random people.and exactly what do you actually know about him to love him..???
No no no your not getting it. Well to answer the 1st post, I can visit him by train. And to answer the 2nd and 3rd post hes not like that at all!!!! Not at all!! He's the sweetest guy I have ever met and I kKNOW for sure he is real, not a old man. And the guys in my local area are all idiots and chavs, errr no thanks? I wanna do better with my life then end up pregnant with a kid at 16 and have a father that just gets drunk and partys.. Thats what they all do around here I hate living here. I wanna make something of myself be with someone who has dreams and ambitions and this guy has that.
I live in an area like that and to be honest there are some really amazing people you just got to know where to look. never colse your mind to possibilities. No one is saying this guy is bad or anything like that. You asked for advice and thats what you got. You met the guy online... to be honest there isnt a lot of emotion online. He said he love you.. and then he said he loved someone else. to me that doesnt sound like he cares about you to much.. hes an hour away be realistic where are you going to get the money to take the train to see him? How often are you going to go down there and him to you? Probably not often.... it wont last long. Try harder to find someone near you, and your age. Trust me theres always someone! This I know from experience. Good luck with what ever you choose.
You live in your town, don't you? Not all the people there can be too unlike you. Trust me, online relationships at 15 are SUCH a no-no. And you don't want someone who's so confused about their own emotions, it'll make his concerns for yours even less, although I'm sure it's not intentional.
you asked for advice, you got it. if you just wanted us to say yes go for it then, well, this isnt hte right place for that. from what -you- explained, he sounded confused about what he wanted and i personally think that you can do better than someone whos that confused
I've seen your posts before you aren't in love you are infatuated you prolly won't believe me but you should cause otherwise you are gonna learn too late.
forget about him..he said he loves you but he doesn't see you at all..if he really loves you, he will make a way to see you or to know you better..don't be fool..get to know him first...
I don't know how old you are or how old he really is but if he is 15 and things became sexual there is a real risk of legal problems. You are aware that a lot of people online are NOT what they represent themselves to be? Not, only that, a lot of them have their heads up their asses. Some of us call them asshats because of that. This individual doesn't know what he or she wants. I wouldn't touch him/her with a ten foot pole. If you should decide to meet up with someone from the Internet make sure you use correct safety rules whether you want to or not. Have a safe call and USE it. Meet in public first. Do not leave with him or her on a first meeting. Anyone can get hurt over an online relationship. The good news is that you didn't get a disease, you are alive and not pregnant. Good luck to you. I'm sorry you are hurting.
