Sorry for keeping this superficial, but I'm not really confortable talking about this in public, especially after I just got done ragging on a fat nerd for visiting my mock blog of mynutspace. My mom just found out that I was gay, and took away my car privilages. I just got my net privilages back after some fighting and feuding, and I'm not really feeling loved. So anyways.... My boyfriend was driving me home from the mall today, and my mom caught us kissing in the car. She freaked out and started hitting me. She then took away my car keys and grounded me for a week. I'm very afraid what my dad is going to say, because he's very homophobic, and will probably disown me. Is there any way I can make them understand my homosexuality without hurting them? The Phrost -Mastah of MyNutspace
Leave the house. You're 26 now and with your boyfriend I think you're well enough ready to live independently. Give them time to cool off and then try to talk to them at a later stage.
First, what is your true age. That why we can honestly comment on what you have posted, and give you advice on dealing with the issues you will encounter with family and friends.
First of all, if your old enough then its time to move out. Honestly, i have to be blunt - Leave home for a while, live your life, keep in contact with them but dam, you are what you are, you always will be, and the fact that your parents are opressive to homosexual behaviour will eventually start degrading your self-esteem, and we all know thats hard to bounce back from. But yeah, live your life because one day you may look back and think dam it, i wasted time. They'll come around man, All parents want their kids to be happy but itll take them some time to adjust - you have to try see it from their point of view to understand why they could be so freaked out, your mother has probably wanted grandkids from you and your father probably wants you to be like him and carry on the family name, they may also just be scared of what there friends and neighbours may think and what are their religious beliefs? BUT - when i've rambled enough - when choices are this hard, you have to break it down to a simple equation, Will you be happy? if not, change the value of x until you are.
