I've been sexually active for about 2 1/2 years and sex has ranged from excruciating to very uncomfortable. I really want to enjoy it, but I try to urge my partner to finish up faster to stop the pain (none has ever seemed to notice this). I've used condoms and no condoms and different kinds of condoms (on the pill), several different kinds of lubes, and ridiculous amounts of foreplay. It's not even better with dildos or vibrators. I know that since I've gotten on the pill, I've pretty muched stopped getting wet, but even being practically drenched in lube does not help. If I do not have sex for a month or more, I'll bleed the next time. Not a profuse amount, but enough so that it's noticable. I'm really open about it with my boyfriend but he really has no way of understanding. I've been tested for STDs twice in this time and also had a pap smear, both are clean. What could possibly be the problems? I hadn't had sex in several months before my last pap exam so the thought to ask about it didn't occur to me. I've since moved so I need to find a gyno and figure out insurance (my mom normally handled that for me but this isn't exactly a topic she needs to know about) before I can make an appointment. In the meantime, is there anything I can do?
Something you probably already know....but you need a doctor. It sounds like you've tried everything. I would say to just find the doctor as soon as you get all the insurance stuff straightened out.
Endometriosis, perhaps? Scar tissue developed on your ovaries? There are a lot of things it could be. I suggest you see a doc as soon as possible in order for this problem to be solved.
