My bf was a virgin when we started dating. We've only had sex a few times because were never alone. But every time we have sex, he lasts a few minutes and its over. I thought, at first, maybe I was just having so much fun, I lost track of time(longer than it seemed)...But this last time, I happened to look at the clock at the start and the end, and it was about 3 minutes. Whats the deal? Do you guys think this will get better over time? I thought maybe he was so horny that he would just cum too fast, but I attempted to start things up again(the last time) and he wanted to sleep so now I'm wondering if hes just got a problem? And we aren't teenagers or anything, I'm 21 and he's 23...(Ive heard stuff about teenagers dont last long, so I figured Id throw that age thing in.) Any ideas what to do?
I am a lay sex therapist and I can give you 10 ways to help what he has, which is called premature ejaculation - a common problem, especially for young men. PM me.
does he masturbate before you two are planning on having intercoures, same day preferably within 5 hours previous to you two engagin in sexual activity. it helps some guys last longer if theyve cum relatively recently
but you two are sexually active with one another, yet unwilling to discuss sex? im not saying youneed to know now but you need to be willing to ask about someone sexual habits if youre invovled with them
Not unwilling. Honestly, I just never thought to ask him about it. I mean, it wouldn't be awkward or anything to ask...I just kinda figure that its his own business.
Hey! Just ask him! Maybe he's trying to get fastest time!XD Like a sprint contest or someting XD No, but seriously, just sit down and talk to him about it rationally ^^. I heard that if you masturbate tantrically(go as long as you can without orgasm, then at the moment of orgasm, stop, rest a few seconds, then continue) you can work on how long you last during sex.
