my sister left for college, im losing it..help

my sister left for college a couple weeks ago, and its just now hitting me i guess. she was my best friend and we were so close.....and now i just feel so lonely. i have plenty of friends, but at the end of the day its always me and an empty house. i dont have a mom and my dad is always gone

any advice? id really appreciate it, im starting to feel really really lonely.

and having to do an 8 page paper on schopenhauer for philosophy def isnt helping...(he was an advocate of solipsism)

peace. love. thanks.
audrey

 

I could come live with you so you will never be lonely again.

 

well ur in denmark...but if u ever come to indy u can come live here and stay in her room.

 

I always wanted to go to India.

 

keep your head up kiddo! just think,your sister is going to college to better herself and you should be proud of her.maybe give her a call and let her know how much she is missed,or just eat some ice-cream in your jammies and watch a boo-hoo movie just to get it out of your system.call some of your closest friends and see if they will come over for a goofy girls' night of a sleep-over.starbucks white chocolate mocha always helps for me.all my best to you in this fragile time

 

talk to her and tell her how u feel.. she'll always know how to make you feel better by the sounds of things.

and bear this in mind.. in a few years u'll be joining her at college and she'll show u a great time I'm sure. n more than that.. a close relationship will never fade away.. my brother and I are very close and even today.. him married and all.. we still talk about everything and share our life stories. that's a great thing to have!

maybe tell your dad how u feel as well.. he should really realise that in a few years both his daughters will no longer be living with him and will have their own lives to lead. if I were him I'd want to be stocking up on memories of your times together now.

 

aww thanks i took your advice and called her, and im feeling a lot better right now!

 

I recently left for college. It's my first time away from home. I left behind my best friend, my little brother. He's your age. I miss him something fierce.

I don't know what you are going through, but I am on the other side of the fence. Everything I see reminds me of Jayson and all the stuff we would do together. Keep in touch with your sister and know that she isn't going away to college just for her. She is probably leaving for you, too. She probably wants to be a good influence for you, and to open the doors to this way of life so that when it's your turn, you aren't going into it blindly.

Holly

 

Awww this thread is sweet. Makes me want to go hang out with my brother.

 

My sister sarah lives in michigan.... and I live in Maryland... she goes to art shcool out their.....I call her when ever I miss her.. we right emails all the time.. try doing that I plan to take a trip up to see her soon maybe