It certainly is moreso than cocksucking, if that's what you mean. Personally, I get annoyed at how "un-mainstream" cunnilingus is made out to be. I tend to think that it has to do with the fact that even after all these years and with the sexual revolution concluded, women are still more repressed than men. At least where I live and in the songs I listen to and in the movies I watch, men are awfully proud of their dicks. It's appropiate to refer to them casually, it's appropiate to have discussions about having your cock sucked with your buddies. Try to apply the same standards to women, and it falls apart. Women are, too often, ashamed of their own genitalia. They're anxious about having oral performed on them, not eager, the way men are. They're embarassed about it. Think about how casually fellatio is treated compared to cunnilingus - I wonder how many girls are EXPECTED to give blowjobs, compared to how many men feel compelled - especially in beginning dates or in one-night stands - to return the favor? Ever wonder why the word "****" is seemingly the worst word in the human language, while "cock" and "dick" are, at worst, mildly offensive, and at best only funny? What makes it particularly unfair is that men consistently orgasm from both oral and intercourse, whereas most women can't get off from intercourse alone, so if her man refuses to go down on her, a woman could conceivably just never experience an orgasm with him. How pathetic is that? Perhaps it's just because I'm on my period and bitchy, but it pisses me off how eating pussy is considered "counterculture" in some circles, while sucking cock is not just the norm, but actually expected. I've actually heard men brag that they DON'T go down on their women, and claim that their girlfriends don't mind, but I rather think that secretly those girls hate it. It's almost a macho thing sometimes, I think; you have to be able to satisfy her with ONLY your dick, not have to resort to your tongue. Anyway, my general answer is yes, often, it is counterculture, unfortunately...and I wish it wasn't.
eh, every guy loves recieving head, but less women have let me go down than havent. Many Women have them personal issues that make them not want to let a guy near a vagina with a face. Their loss.
Yeah, but thats where the whole shame thing comes in. Their ashamed of what they have and don't wish for guys to get close enough to experience it with their more sensitive senses, like smell, taste, and god forbid we get a closer look! *roles eyes* I practically had to pitch the idea to her like a car salesman just to get her to let me. After that, she had a complete change of heart. Its now a manditory part of our sex life. If i slip up and forget when it comes to that particular part, without missing a beat she'll be like "Um aren't you gonna', y'know? *hand gestures*"
i wouldnt consider it "coutnerculture", but there are a lot of us chicks out there with confidence issues when it comes to sex, seuxality and our genitalia. i hate some of the double standards (especially regarding pubic hair) but i cant imagine longterm dating someone who didnt go down on me. i love oral sex, giving and recieving, but to be honest i especially love receiving it. since i dont cum from penetration and only have a couple of times from a partners manual stimulation, its either whip out a vibrator which feels like masturbating during intercourse (which is fun now and then but not as a regular thing for me) or have oral before we get to the fucking :X
This has annoyed me for a long time. I think that when girls start getting sexual in their teens they aren't quite comfortable with their genitals yet and don't want a guy down there, thus giving young guys the impression that girls don't like or want to be eaten out. These boys grow up thinking that, and so cunnilingus isn't part of their repertoire until they come across a lady bold and comfortable enough to suggest it. So ladies...spread your legs and direct his mouth down so our oral revolution can begin!!!
see if was allways a given if i get a bj then girl gonna get same back but like 1 poster said some ain't confidence enough then it the guy job to relax them about it.....women need to know us guys or at least me really enjoy doing that to them
so so delicate it is, listen, If I could find a partner in such sciences, I'd soon conclude, that for me at least, pussy is the only diet I need. CounterCulture? Perhaps we are busy leaking clean the messy little cavity before we send the team in for an emergencey breach operation. So no, eating out is not counterculture, if anything, it should be a discrete extension in physical education, around the time when the kids are learning sex ed anyways... I mean think about it, they tell ya stories, make ya read books and watch videos, for the sake of oral hygien, ya'd think the practical thing to do is to adminsiter sponsored eat out sessions where the nurses are keeping things sterile, like taking a physical...
amazing. this is so true!!!! even more so for anal sex now than for oral sex. it seems like it's ok for guys to fuck girls in the ass but God forbid a guy let a girl fuck him in the ass! oh he must be gay! oh for shame! seriously, it's so lame i can't stand it. i love receptive anal sex (from women) and i am nowhere NEAR gay. i like to give it to them too. not as much, but still do. but it's like no one EVER talks about anal, and even less, no one EVER EVER EVER talks about guys taking it from girls. this needs to be set straight by someone... for real. somebody needs to just publicize in big bold print, all over the world, that GUYS GIVE GIRLS HEAD AND GIRLS FUCK GUYS ASSES just as it is the other way around. plz.
