Dad caught me.

Hey bro that is an awsome letter.... I was gonna send something like that to my parents even though I havn't been caught... Cuz I wanna tell them so I don't have to worry about them finding out or anything...
Do you mind if I cut your letter up a bit to suit me for my situation? Cuz I think it'd be a great thing to email to my mom who already pretty muich knows I smoke.

 

thats good that your dad was cool about it, and he's not gonna tell your mom.
i think it is a good idea to talk to your dad about it and tell him why you did it and such.
its good too that you respect him enough to quit for awhile

you're a good son! haha

 

Wow, Your dad is smart man. My dad is too, but he knows I would keep doing it.

 

Go for it man. Glad it can help you.

Thanks

My dad is a really good person, which makes it easier for me to stop smokin.

 

That sucks that you got busted, but your dad seems like a smart guy. Most of the stories here have parents yelling at children and taking away everything which only makes the situation worse. But your dad handled it pretty well and I liked that you both wrote each other letter. If I had heard that stuff from my own parents(If I ever actually got busted, I doubt my parents would care as long as I was careful and kept my already high grades up), I would be guilt-tripped pretty badly.

 

that sucks.
when it happened to me i was pissed.... but you learn ALOT.
in a few weeks or months... youll look back and see its acually not a big deal at all. and takes a huge weight off you shoulders.
peace

 

Well, I talked to him a couple hours ago about the issues he had with weed. Basically his issues were that he thought I'd have to hang around bad people in order to get it, and that inhaling smoke can cause problems (I didn't try to argue this point). I did reassure him that the people I've gotten weed from were good people. I told him that i'd never been in a situation that I felt could end up badly. I told him that I still stand by what I did because I really saw a difference in how I felt in every day situations when I was sober, something that anti-depressants never really helped much with.

After that I told him that there are other ways to use pot that don't involve smoking it. He basically asked how so I told him about vaporizing it and that it didn't involve any smoke at all. After a little more talk he said that he appreciated it's value when used medicinally but not in a recreational way. After that I said "If I vaporize pot, would you let me do that every once in a while?" He said yeah.

It was funny because a little before that he said "If you ever buy it again you shouldn't get stuff with all those seeds and stems, (referring to the bag of seeds and stems that had been picked out and put there after the bud was removed from them). I told him thats just stuff that I picked out.

He then said goodnight.

I can't believe such a horrifying situation turned into a great experience.

weird.

If anyone looks at any of the points in my situation that I brought up and decides they want to talk to their parents using those points, it only has a posibility of working if your parent/s aren't irrational.

 

yeah dude thats great to hear. buy a nice vap lol

 

wow, you should make a site to help kids in this situation. im going to use this because my mom knows I smoke...is what I think but she does not want to confront me about it till she sees my stash is what im guessing

 

Im getting one of those Bill Eagle shake and vape pipes for $26.

 

that is a good idea, someone should make a website for teens in this situation.
Cause its a hard subject to talk about with people who don't know what its like.