How Do You Feel About Open Relationships?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by babyjones, Sep 7, 2004.

  1. babyjones

    babyjones Member

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    Could you ever have an open relationship with someone you loved? Meaning that if either of you wanted to go off and do your own thing, or person, or whatever, that would be okay. be honest..
     
  2. novarys

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    well i wouldn't want my guy to go off and do another person while he was with me, that would drive me insane. going off and doing his own thing? if it was permanent and he was never coming back,,,,i dont think i could stop him, (it would be great if he wanted me to go with him)
     
  3. juicy_redgirl

    juicy_redgirl Daphney

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    nah I couldn't do it. It would bother me a lot.
     
  4. Elle

    Elle Senior Member

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    Nah, Im not down with open relationships at all. Not if I love someone and we have already been together exclusively. That would never work for me.
     
  5. brokenwingz425

    brokenwingz425 Member

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    Realtionships are with 1 person, fuck friends are what I would consider to be an open relationship. I have neither
     
  6. novarys

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    yeah but even friends can screw you over even worse than a "significant other", which is really sad...but almost seems inevitable ya know?
     
  7. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    nah, i couldnt deal with an open relationship. i'm a serial monogamist :p
     
  8. vanilla

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    Can't deal with it. I cannot even stand the thought of him holding hands with another female, let alone knowing that he's fucking somebody else and me at the same time. So when he is not with me, he is very likely to be fucking another female. That thought drives me insane.
     
  9. tfou

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    there is no way i could have an open relationship. i would not be able to be with somebody else while in a relationship and i would expect the same of my partner. i think too many emotions would get involved anyway, and you would be heading for a big mess.
     
  10. superNova

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    these aren't for me either. better to wait until you're really ready for a monogamous relationship than to rush into one and still want to get it on with other people.

    unless you're one of those people who just doesn't believe in monogamy, then hey, do your thing! :)
     
  11. mmelody

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    I like the idea of swinging..doing it together. But i'd hate the idea of him being with someone else without me :mad:
     

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