With me, the ultimatum came up with the girlfriend. And my line of thinking went like this - if you're willing to choose a drug over a girl, you're an addict. I quit, and haven't done it since.
what makes you think he won't do coke again because some kids look up to him..he's only 16 and already has a coke problem he apparantly couldn't say no to his visiting friends.....addicts only stop when they want to stop, trying to quit for someone else will not work....
Yes. Get into a 12 step program to help you. The only person you can help rite now is you. Good luck !