can a woman literally drive a man crazy?

just wanting some honest opinions on the matter. i've been put through hell recently and feel the need to discuss matters with others. tell me your thoughts or experiences.

 

There are different levels of insanity... Im on level 3 of 5... Ill let you know when I go off the deep end

 

how's she treating you? what drives you NUTS?

 

We have been together over 15 years... that alone is enough to do it. Life is a series of compromises... Trouble is sometimes I dont wanna


Most troubles stem from financial reasons however... My thinking is this... if you dont NEED a new $1200 bed, DONT buy one for the sake of buying one

 

has she ever gone flip-flopping on you? always changing her mind for idiotic reasons?

 

Its a womans prerogative ya know

 

yeah, it's a woman's perrogative to tell a guy she'll be with him forever while she's really only trying to buy time with another.

 

My ex would do the epitome of flip-flopping... She thought in a complete black and white fashion.... I was either the best guy in the world, or the worst... and it was a damned subtle thing. So when I went from the good guy to the bad guy, she had to "prove" that I was bad, to herself, and me... so we'd get into fights about the most insane things you could imagine. Turning off the lights, for example. She'd tell me, thanks for leaving the light on when you left for work this morning; and I'd know that I didn't leave it on. She would *never* cave in. Never ever ever. If she figured out I wasn't going to either, she'd change the subject in to something else. And she was a pro at it, I've not met a single person in my life that was as manipulative as her... if she hadn't wrecked me so bad that I had to go to therapy, I woulda never found out how good she was at it.

 

sounds like you and i might have something in common

 

Dude if you have ever been married you would know that the answer to that question is hell yes, I think its there job

 

yeah, something tells me that it'll happen to her again sometime sometime.

 

Well Travelin' ... what do you consider "hell" besides the flip-flopping?

 

constantly changing her mind on who she wants to be with and why and other mind games.