does my straight GUY friend LIKE ME?!

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by sodapop, Jul 30, 2007.

  1. sodapop

    sodapop Member

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    well.. im really confused.. i need your opinion.. okay first of all im a little fem, you can say..but i still dress like a straight person and i guess you can say im conceited when i can be.. so ill try and explain some hints that keep me thinking..

    you know how it is when a person leans on something..and their ass shape shows.. i know he looks because i have a "sexy bubble butt" that everyone says..and he touched it with a good firm grip when i was in his way..for about 3 seconds until i PRETENDED to not like it and moved..lol

    he has a gf who happens to be my good friend..he gets jealous when she mentions me.. mainly because she gives me more attention than she does to him.. but she gives other guys attention too..but why is it just ME that he gets more jealous about? she used to like me (but he doesnt know) and we used to flirt in letters and person..but he doesnt know that too..

    we can talk normally as friends..but most of the time its like i feel that i intimidate him..and he intimidates me..meaning sometimes we cant be open to each other as we usually are..

    he compared our lips one time.. (we both have nice lips)

    ..why am i so confused? because if you live where im at..in a town of about 40,000 in population.. youll only be able to name 25 openly gay local men.. its not that its a disgrace here, its just a taboo thats hard to accept because everyones related to everyone (over exhagerrating but its slightly true) so even if my straight guy friend DID like.. hell probably never tell me EVER because the guys here never do.. but 'thinking' he likes me makes me feel so.. hot & bothered? lol
     
  2. Malapascua

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    Invite him fishing, bowling, golfing, or something, and see what happens.

    If you still aren't sure, make a bet over something rediculous.
    Bet him a hand-job if you are wrong (wink), and BE WRONG.
    See if he holds you to your word.

    Just a thought.
     
  3. sodapop

    sodapop Member

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    that does sound pretty good..actually we've never had one-on-one time together..hmm..and plus he loves to drink and get drunk..i mean LOVES.. i do too (wink)
     
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