So me and my gf having been going out for almost 4 months now. Recently her freinds have really been the cause of our problems, always tricking us with fake myspace messages and writing fake text in aim, anywho tonight was like a big blow for me. She finally basically told everyone off but then I got a message from a freind of hers. I told my gf something that I have never told one person on this earth before because I trusted her with the information. Well guess that was blabbed about and now I feel like ive been stabed in the back. I told her MULTIPLE times this is something that you can never tell anyone. Now I feel betrayed and cant stand it. But not the end of the night, I found out she cheated on me. She had been denying it for the past month and I basically knew it was true. Tonight though I finally got her to confess. She only kissed another guy but then told him she didnt want to and to get away. I dont know how much more I can take...I love her soo much but its hurting me so bad. I cant even tell her a secret without her going around telling people. If nobody can give me advice, well I dont care, I just wanted to write that and get out my feelings. thx
When to let go? I think you already know; now. She is obviously not someone you can trust. It will be hard at first but over time you will be happy that you broke it off sooner than later. Best of luck and good vibes.
Baby i am so sorry. You have no idea how much i wish i could go back and change everything. I didnt mean to hurt you like that. But you also hurt me with karen. But i understand what i did was wrong and i wish i could do something to make you feel better and trust me again. You dont know how long i cried last night just thinking about everything ive done. I've told you many times you dont have to stay with me. I've hurt you so bad that i wouldnt blame you if you left me. But just so you know i am truly sorry. Theres nothing i wouldnt do to fix all this. Your the only one that makes me happy and shows me love. The only person in my family that actually gives a shit about me lives hundreds of miles away and do you know how much that hurts me? A LOT! Im sorry for everything i really am and what ever you want to do is totally up to you because i just want you to be happy and by the looks of it your not. So please just do what yo gotta do because i dont want to hurt you anymore. Also i will never stop loving you and theres a place for you in my heart always. Goodbye
honestly id find someone else. the kiss thing was stupid but forgiveable. however, betraying your confidence with something important like that, let alone to someone who isnt good at keeping secrets... soooo not cool. now and then ill get some confidential info that i do share with one friend, but its if i need to talk it out and i KNOW she wont tell another soul. and ps to Casie, if he was really "he only one that makes me happy and shows me love" then you wouldnt have betrayed his trust like that, you wouldnt have hurt him and undermined his confidence in you like that, you wouldnt have sabotaged this relationship in multiple ways and you wouldve put a stop to your friends interfering in a negative manner MUCH earlier on. you too want this to end. maybe not for good reasons, maybe because you dont feel like youre worthy of having an awesome boyfriend, but if you wanted it to work you wouldve taken care of the relationship much earlier on and put a lot more effort into it than whats been written here
i tried to stop my friends but they really werent my friends when they started doing all of that crap. I gave up all my friends just for him so i had no control over the situation at all. Also i put a lot of effort into our relationship. None of you people are there when were alone together so you know nothing about this and yeah he might have made this post but its only the basics of what happend this whole week but if you were around us for the 4 months that we've been going out you would understand and see things a lot more clear. So yeah thats all i have to say and you might not think i love him and i dont deserve him but thats his choice not yours and really i dont care what any of you say and im not trying to be a bitch or anything but seriously you cant give accurate advice if you dont know the whole story.
Dude....yer 18 ? Forget her...Luv shmuv at 18 ! Go out and enjoy as many of those young girlies as you can. Believe me, when you hit 40, you'll whish you had, if you dont. JMHO
did you gloss over the bit where i said "whats been written here" in reference to what i was pulling info from? of course i havent lived in your shoes, nor his. i just feel that this behaviour wouldve been stopped sooner if you wanted the relationship to flourish, because it sounds like there were more than a couple warning signs that things were going seriously wrong before now
probly the only reason why you say that is because you couldnt get any when you were 18. You probly dont even know what love is. You just go to work, come home get on hip forums, and jack off to porn online because you have no life. I dont think hes that kind of guy. You would have to know his past and my past to really understand.
Actually no there were no warning signs. Once i stopped being friends with them they tried breaking us up with lies and saying a whole bunch of things. And yeah i shouldnt have said his secret to my one friend but i thought she was really a good friend and i needed someone to talk to about it because it was really sad for me and i didnt want to talk about it with him because i didnt want to upset him. I know i shouldnt have told her but i didnt think she would be a bitch about it and disrespect him like that. But yeah so i didnt know that it was going to get out of control like that at all and it really hurts me that this whole thing had to happen and you guys might think im a bitch and he should leave me but im really a good person and ive been through so much that you wouldnt even understand and ive been beating myself up over this whole thing and i will for, pretty much the rest of my life.
nobody from these forums can give you guys advice with the little info we have. from my experience on these forums, jake's a piece of shit who deserves any shit he's put through. that said, he should dump casie based on his post and the fact that she hasn't given a really good argument against it. especially considering she seems more concerned about explaining herself to us than to him... fuck it though, it's none of my business to begin with
Word. Though I may be a dick online, I may be different in person.... but I could care less, this is the forums, a free speach community where I can bash noobish smokers who come here asking the same thead every time "Where Can I find bud in the United States" lol just my two cents about the stupidity of the forums.
^meh, i can't say you're wrong there by the way, i still don't particularly like you, but the booze made me come off a little harsher than i really meant to...
