So im pretty sure im just being a dumbass and im probably doing the wrong thing but idk. But ive been going out with someone for like 8 months now and i guess you could say we're in love too..and about a month ago i told her i would stop smoking, but i kept smoking because its just tempting and i enjoy it. so now im just starting to feel guilty and if she ever found out i would be fucked, so should i just stop?(which i dont want to do, but can) or should i take another plan of action? This all sounds kinda dumb to me but i could use the help or someone else's perspective, thanks.
my opinion is you are damned if you tell her and damned if you don't tell her, because she'll find out...they always find out. You should be honest with her and go from there.
Yea just tell her about it, sorry for not stopping but tell her it is something you love to do, but you will stop if she really wants you to, and you want to stay with her.
Yeah thats what i was thinking, i may be able to keep smoking for like a month but she will eventually find out, so i think i could just stop now and go on with my life because she hasnt like questioned me if ive been smoking at all. But ugh, i do not want to quit, i only smoke like once a week now sometimes more, and it just makes me happy and theres nothing wrong with that
i agree with nate. thats the road you should take. and if she understands, then thats very good. if not, then fuck her. cuz if she doesn't understand that you like pot and its something you really enjoy then she doesn't love you as much as you think she does. sorry i'm in a bad mood tonight
first of all, has she ever tried it? 9 times out of 10 if people have never tried it they tend to dislike it. also I think if she can't accept you for something as small and meaningless as smoking pot it isn't meant to be. I would be honest and ask her to accept you for it, if that doesnt work...ask her to try it before she judges you, she might end up liking it and you'll have a girlfriend to toke up with...but it's your call sir...
Dont tell her that you never stopped. Just talk to her about smoking, tell her that you really enjoy it. And that you really care about her, and dont want to lose her, but smoking is somthing you really like to do. Promise her you will only do it occasionally like once a month or somthing. Then you can smoke as much as you want until she catches you once. Then you just act like its that one time in the month. Doees that make scense? I have been in a really simialar situation and it worked out for me...until she cheated on me...lol.
don't worry about it you are only 16. find a girl that loves to smoke as much as you. you shouldn't have to choose between two things you love, they should be compatible.
well shes smoked before, we smoked together a couple times too...but she pretty much quit because her whole family are stoner(she doesnt live with them though) so she wants to not be like them. but if i said "i really like smoking, and i hope this is something you can understand" she will be like "whatever, go ahead and smoke then if you want" but in a sarcastic tone. but idk, im never high around her, and i tell my friends not to let the word out that i smoke with them, that way if she asks them, they will say no..but i just feel guilty still
yes. high school sucks. if you do something and tell one person or don't even tell like anyone the whole shool will know by the next day. double suckage if you have a twin like me who gets in all your business at school.
yeah I dont think you should haveta choose between a green plant and a living girl. Tell her you like to do it: if she isnt understanding, then tell her its not cool, but let her know that you wanna stay with her. If shes flipping out, then fuck her. Or get her high.
ew heroin. my friend used to live with her aunt and her aunt was a heroin addict. we used to hide it from her. man she thought it was the end of the world
Well, shes going to actually move away now, and she will be in a whole different school district(no worries for me, i can still see her) so i dont think she will be able to figure out..but who knows........i dont
