here is the thing, i recently realized that i am bi, and i have a best friend who i happen to be really attracted to , i have a weird gut feeling that he is also attracted to me, but i need to be 100% sure that he is attracted to me before i make a move, can you guys please help me and tell me how i know he is attracted to me, and tell me if there are any kind of "tests" i can do to see if he shares the same feelings, or simply tips anything would be helpful
if he is your best friend, try having a normal conversation but like make it eventually lean towards the question "what would you say if i hypothetically had a crush on you". if hes your best friend, and he believes you are just being hypothetical, he might just laugh it off. if he asks you that back, try to make it a more serious gay subject. if he calls you a derogatory name, fuck 'em.
these situations suck; every gay boy has been through it. there is no clear answer as to whether your friend is gay. it sucks; i know. it all depends on how open you are with your friendship. there is no way to figure it out without asking or making a move. it sucks, i know.
What is life if not a series of planned and random movements that we choose or choose not to make. That's what makes it interesting. Go for it. Don't be afraid of change and let go of his response and ownership for his life. If he's you're friend, you'll survive one way or another. IF he's not, then there's a short loss involved. BUT LIVE! DARE! DREAM! do...