How do you knock the arrogance out of a bully

Simple...Stay Calm, Don't React, Just Smile And Show Them Kindness. That Should About Do It.

 

What worked for me, was I simply got fed up and kicked his ass. I never saw him again.

 

just go around naked all the time, they won't know what to say... unless your dick is really really small... then don't...

Personally I broke the nose and arm of my personal bully when he jumped me with an iron bar... but I'm not sure it's worth waiting for...

 

-leaves room, comes back with can opener and can of 'whoop ass'. gives them to you-

...go nuts

 

well if you want to knock the arrogance out of him. there is a point somewhere on the back of his head. Its a very tiny hole with a white substance in it. that substance is arrogance. like your crapper, it has muscles holding in the substance. If your can hit him, maybe with a rock, I dunno; and hit him right in that spot. his arrogance should fall right out.

 

Since it's my sisters bullying me, i have to show compassion!

 

Slap it out of her.
Stand up to her.

 

^first off, you're right.


second, were you bullied by a girl or something? i know there are bullies of both genders, but a majority tend to be male and it just seemed weird that you immediately decided it was a female

 

Lulso, yes there are many people who mistakenly believe that if you are friends with them they then have license to mistreat you. It is sick, but it is the way many people are. In that situation, what has worked for me is telling them that I do not want to participate in put down humor or belitteling people because it is wrong to do so. I do not do it to others and I do not want you doing it to me.
If you have to stop them again afterwards, then use either the questioning or fogging tecniques.
Questioning
Ask for specific information behind their criticism. Keep going untill you get to the real issue or they realise they should not start something with you because your questions show them to be foolish.
Fogging
Fogging is when someone tries to put you down or pick a fight with you and you are as hard to hit as a fog. You just agree with everything they say. Why not? It does not really matter to you anyway. Soon they get tired of talking to you because you are no fun and will not fight them.

Physical bullying is different. I have found that knowing enough Judo or Akido to throw them around the room every time they try to hit me is a very effective deterent.
It is very embarassing for them to find themselves on the floor. I like putting them in a reverse cradle and holding them in a painfull way untill they say they will stop bothering me. If they wont say it I ask if I have to hurt them first? It indicates that they are not a threat to me and they should give up.

Or you could kick them in the knee sideways. It only takes 18 pounds of pressure to break that joint.

Family
Since they are family, it is important not to let them get seriously hurt when you throw them around. That is more difficult that just slamming them into a pile of broken glass.