Questions...a lot of them

1) How would I come open and tell my family that I am bisexual/gay?
2) If I wanted to ask someone of my own sex to go out on a date, how would I do it?
3) Why do people make fun of or mock bisexual/gay people? (personally i think its out of fear...)
4) How would I come open and tell my friends that I am bisexual/gay?
5) Are there others who feel the same way I do now? (Scared, Worried, and Unsure about coming out and telling?)
6) Do bisexual/gay guys and girls act "differently" than they would if they were straight?
7) How would I actually find a bisexual or gay boy? I found one on accident but he didn't find me attractive...
8) Am I just asking things that dont make since?!
9) Do some bisexual/gay people ask these questions at some point in they're life?
10) Is it hard to find a lover if you are bisexual/gay?

I have more... I just want these few answered before I post more... Sorry if these questions are improper...

~Ori

 

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Just like you would if they were a different sex.

There always is, and unless society changes as a whole, there always will be.

In bed yes (for obvious reasons). Other wise not usualy.
There are some (gay)personality traits in some people, but not always,

No,they all make since.

We all ask these questions (I'm Bi myself and I stilla sk these questions at times.)

I think its easer. You can relate to girls so they are interested in you (and you in them) and your open to guys.

Thats the magick question. It's not easy, and as I said:
"unless society changes as a whole"
it will say hard. It's easer to come out to other gays and gay friendy people, but others it's almost impossable.

Good luck

Peace

 

Thanks for the help both of you two... I feel a lot better now I got some of my questions answered ^_^ I could give you both a hug right now hehe

~Ori

 

I have a question, I had an experience with a friend. During the experience I felt as If I was only trying to stimulate myself, I was not turned on at all. If fact, the guy who was with me was trying really hard to get me to go through with the experience. Afterward I told him I didn't like it, and now I don't feel that great about it, like I could have said no at any point, but chose not to.


My question is this, how do I proceed forward with life knowing that I tried being with another man, didn't like it, and now I have to live with knowing I might have made a mistake?

I almost have a sick feeling now, and I don't know what to do about it.

Hopefully it passes....

Bolozen

 

bolozen.
the only thing i can say to you. and dont take offense to it. is,
GET OVER IT.
we alll do things we arnt proud of.
so you were experimenting with another man. you might not know this but so many people experiment with people of the same sex. its nothing to be ashamed of.

at least you know now that you didnt enjoy and you can move through life with a knowledge that you are not gay or bi and maybe in the future you can laugh at yourself.

 

Sorry, i have no personal experience with this

if you are not sure if they are gay/bi/lez as well, bring it up nonchalantly (sp?)

because people are afraid of life styles that are differently than theirs, or the bible tells them to (if thats how they interpret it )

again, no experiences.

I am afraid to come out to my family and some friends. a few of my friends i have ben able to come out to with no worries.

not unless they are super flamboyant and act in the "i'm here and i am queer" manner. otherwise, we're just like everyone else, IMO.

you just gotta look out for them.

no.

i did at one point in my life.

it really depends on where you live, how hard you look, who knows you're gay, etc.

 

Confeusion,,
Those are quite a few ?'s
on #8 and #9
#8-You are asking things that make sense.
#9-I'd say all (I don't want to generalize but) Bi-sexual/Gays ask themselves these ?'s
I could try to answer some of your other ?'s but it's real late,.I think you've gotten alot of help already.
This may not help you,.but hell,try to lighten up a little.It may help you to find some answers for yourself and not totally get freaked.
Take it a little slower answers are'nt gonna come all at once.

All Good,...
Joey*

 

Well it's good that you had this experience otherwise you may never have known what intimacy with the same sex would probably be like. Everyone makes these kind of mistakes all the time, it's only natural to do so and to feel the way you do about it. don't let it bother you otherwise your anxiety, disgust, or regret may screw you up a little. hope this helps.