New to site. I am bi-curious and need advice,please!!

I am a 30 year old SAH mom of 3. My hubby of almost 5 years, who is 35 knows of who I am and what I have been wanting. I want to have sex with another woman. Both with her and me only and with me and my husband with her.

I fantasize about it all of the time. Me and the hubby talk dirty to one another while we are fucking like we have a 3rd person in the room. We talk of what we are doing to her and what she is in turn doing to us.

We are actively looking for a person here locally. It would be friendship first. Then, things can go to other levels from there. Basically, we are looking for a friend with benefits.

But, what are some qualities that we should be looking for in a woman to share our bed with?

Also, from a FEMALE's point of view, if you have been with a woman, what do you think I should expect from her during sex? How on average does a woman taste, feel and smell?

Better yet, just by reading this, do you think that I am ready to take that leap into my TRUE sexuality lifestyle? I have been wanting to be with a woman the last couple of years.

Thanks for any help you can give.... especially the ladies. :H

 

If your a married woman, to a man, and have 3 children, I do not think you should be doing what you are anticipating. Think of the things people might say to your kids if people find out. Also it sounds like you are more interested in a woman than a man. So before you take this leap you need to find out which you prefer. Man, Woman, or both.

 

You know what? If your husband is okay with it (I mean REALLY okay, like even if he thinks it'd be fine he has to realize what this really is. Jealousy can sneak up on you really fast and might cause issues later on. I'm not gonna lecture you on that but just make sure you guys talk about this stuff in depth before doing it!), then I think it's awesome you're both willing to go through with some experimentation How the hell would kids find out about this? It's their parents' sex life! I've talked to amateur porn star-escort-mothers and I think that as long as you're not cheating on your husband without letting him know, then it's not going to damage the kids.


"But, what are some qualities that we should be looking for in a woman to share our bed with?"

First and foremost she needs to completely understand that this is just a sex thing (if that's all you're looking for). Very very important. Umm disease-free, open-minded, understanding that this is your first time with a woman. After that it's all up to you! What kind of woman turns you on? And all I can say about feeling...way softer than a man! No stubble on her face (umm hopefully?), soft lips, gentle hands, smooth/soft body, much more sensual. It is beeeautiful!

I wish you all the best with this and really hope you enjoy the experience!