Have I got a problem with commitment?

Well i knew this guy and he was so sweet etc etc i thought i fell in love with him. But then.. i met this other guy who is just as nice.. or so i think.. but is alot better looking. And I know, from previous events, that even if I did go out with the much good looking guy.. id still find a flaw and id dump him. Ive never had a relationship for longer than 4 days. I am really self consious and can get embaressed really easy, but i am an outgoing person. I dont understand why, when i find a guy that seems decent. I go off him.. have I got a commitment problem?

 

Sounds like you ahve a problem with yourself, Sweetie. Why not work on that first, and then invite people into your life. maybe that way, you can keep them around longer.

 

I had a problem with commitment until I met my fiancee. I was never faithful prior to him and never had any desire to be faithful. Now I am completley changed!

 

Unless It happens frequently i wouldnt think so. being a little self conscience is normal. you'll do just fine

 

no its every guy i go out with.. 1st day im all .. *get away from me* 2nd day im all *omg why am i with him?* and by the 3rd day he is usually dumped. Do you think maybe its because i havent found the right guy yet? .. or could it be the fact i care ALOT about what people think about me. I mean i know your not supposed to care what others think.. but well i cant help it..

 

I just looked at your prof. You're 15...don't worry about it chica

 

You're only 15...you're not afraid of commitment, you're just young. Enjoy life...don't worry about such trivial things. Hugs to you and I hope it all gets better for you.

 

thanks

 

The only problem with you is that you'er 15 lol. Most people your age are not looking for their next baby's daddy/mommy and especially not looking for long term relationships.

You're in an age of experimenting, where bad relationships are easily 4gotten so take advantage of that and I am sure sooner or later you'll find a guy that will be just perfect (4 u that is).

 

that age you really dont need to care about commitment. just enjoy meeting different guys untill you find one that you feel comfortable with

 

your to young to think about commitment. Just wait and then you'll find someone that makes you happy. I think you should just loosen up a bit and explore more. Keep dating till you find someone thats good looking, smart, sweet, loving, and caring. Also someone that treats you good. Just wait a while and then you'll find someone.