I have been dealing with this girl on and off for one year. When we both met each other we both acknowledged that there was something special about us. We started off as friends and about two months ago we decided to become involved into a relationship. We were beginning to fall in love with each other she told me that she had never felt this way about a man ever. she said when she looked at me she saw me as her future husband. She said she was in love with me. But about three weeks ago things went totally sour for us. Here's what happened. We had a very bad weekend together and on that monday I called here and told her it was best we move on, but i really didn't mean it. I didn't call her all that week and when i saw here at church that friday i totally ignored her and didn't speak to her. One week later i tried to get back into the saddle and she texted me and told me she had moved on and we could not be anything more than friends. She said she gave her all and that i had my chance she told me she had other things to worry about. Is it really over? Do we both just need space? Has she really moved on or did she speak that out of emotion like i did a few weeks earlier? Can i get back into the door or has she really closed it on me? I just still believe that over time we will get back together because of our love for one another. Right now i am very confused. By the way we are both in our mid 20 Thanks boyred
in reality, you told her it was over, she would have believed you meant that. so you`re a fool, you lost her. you can try and work things out, but it wont be easy
you messed up, you just cant go saying things like that you want to break up & move on just because your in a bad mood one weekend & then try to take it back..... what an emotional rollercoaster for her....shes probably afraid to try again with you because it probably really hurt her & now she wont trust
I think the door has closed and you should move on, unless you try extreamly hard and she forgives you. But some of us do not posses the power of forgivness so it might be a wasteful time, but you have nothing to loose right?
