advise needed

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by RayOf Sun, Aug 18, 2007.

  1. RayOf Sun

    RayOf Sun Member

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    Ok I had been talking to this guy online, and we were starting to become great friends (maybe more)...
    We have been writing for about three months, and trading pics. He told me a ton of times how much he liked me, and even talked about meeting, someday. Then, after writing almost every day, he just stopped. I don't know weather to ask why, or just assume he's done???? Umm, men are confusing!!! Anyone got any tips???
     
  2. Marija

    Marija Senior Member

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    he didn't pay his DSL bill?
     
  3. Crystalsatreehugger

    Crystalsatreehugger Member

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    he found someone new
     
  4. its_des10e

    its_des10e Member

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    Ask. I think you should know something after a few months. maybe it's just a hectic schedule or something... why always assume the worst? (I used to do the same thing... but had to scold myself.)

    Just ask in a nonchalant way. Write him a note and say say: "I haven't heard from you in awhile. I thought I would write to see what you've been up to and how you are. Hope all is well. :)" Add more or less, but keep it simple.

    That's what I do, anyway.
     
  5. Flannelwearin'gal

    Flannelwearin'gal .robert.johnson.fan.

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    email him back.


    i have a guy i fell inlove with over the internet and more than half the time that he doesn't reply is because he checked his email and read them but he forgets to write back and if you send another it will show up that he has a message waiting for him.


    Me Andrew does that all the time.
     
  6. popcorny

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    Yeah it seems pretty weird that he just stopped, I agree with Flannel and its_des10e. I doubt that someone would just stop like that.

    Don't expect the worse though, I used to do it too and it sucked more then anything else because more than most of the time it isn't bad at all, just some misunderstanding.
     
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