gah i know the subject doesent say much but the truth of the matter is that i came out to my dad a very religious man to tell the truth and he got all pissed at me and threw me out of the house (way to be forgivein dad) but any way i dont know if i should let him stay mad or try to fix things ive been bi for some time now tho im more commfy with other men god im a bad person any way i need some oen to talk to my preacher wont listen any more much like all christians if its aginst the bible theres no sense trying to help the person comitting the sin
i thought they said hate the sin love the person?? I hope it works out for you but he may need some time with it to get round it.
I would try to fix it. No matter what happens he is still your Dad and he will always love you. It will take time but reason with him. Tell him you are the same person and it is just who you are and he will grow to accept it
see sadly i want to try to mend things with my dad but i dont think he'll listen to me any more to tell the truth the man is overly religious and tends to hold a grudge so the chance's of him listening to me are slim to nill
You now have to live your life in the healthiest, happiest way that you can. You have absolutely no way of controlling your dad's feelings, so you must live your life for your needs not his wishes. He may come to see that you have a good, valuable life and accept you later on...regardless, you owe yourself as rich a life as you can live.
i do tend to liv a very healthy life and well a rich one i have lots of friends that understand me maybe better then i do my self which is good tho makes things hard i like of them but know hes straight but ....gah he's such a tease should that be takein in any effect other then him just teaseing ? err any way off topic thanks yall for talking with me even for a little bit
Yea,I agree with Yarapario I would live your life and seek to be happy.I know he's your dad but still his negativity will drag you down if you let it,hopefully he'll come around to you later.i would'nt talk if he's not gonna listen,he's only gonna get angrier.and In time you may have the oppurtunity to talk and reconcile,he is still your father and you need to also deal with your feelings of him treatung you like that as I'm sure you have some.Religous people tend to be very set in there ways.I wish you luck! As for your friend It maybe that he's just a tease and playing with you. I'd play it cool if he's intrested in you i'm sure he'll let you know. ****J*o*e*y*
well i agree with everything thats said most of the time tho you may b e right about my friend im just going to do as you said and relax about it for right now but still its crule lol and i am a rather religious person my self i am christian which i guess whats makes papa so pissed at me but right now i dont care ive spokent to my preacher who finaly listened and he says give it some time and you all say give it some time so im gonna and thank you all so much for the advice on things *huggles and smiles* and no its time for me to go out ni ni
