Ok, so there is this guy at my school that I really like, I usually see him in the hallways because we don't have any classes together. I know for sure that he went out with a girl for short period of time, and then they broke up. Most of his friends think that going out with this girl was a cover up, and that he's still in the closet. Well, I would really want to get to know this guy, he's really cute, but I'm VERY shy, and whenever I talk to hot guys I always end up blushing. I can't possibly imagine myself coming up to him and striking a conversation...We don't even take the same classes! Usually, when I see him at school I get into that "stalker" mode, and all I do is I follow him to his next class! This is getting creepy! In addition to this, I always blush whenever I see someone I like! And the worst part is that I always think about blushing, whenever some hot guy approaches me! What should I do in this situation? Are there any ways that could possibly make me get over it? I appreciate your help!
hey hey calm down theres no need to worry i can admit to you i had the same problem about a year ago but i finally got over it! Trust me its easy to get rid of. Firstly this guy you seem to like, why dnt u just give an odd smile to him everytime you see him or maybe try and get his MSN address or something that might help? If you are shy try and make yourself very brave and happy one day and go over to him and start talking i no its sounds hard at first but the hardest part is when its over, what to do next... just think of the positives! So about the bushing thing, i had a major problem with this a year ago... with many guys, and whenever my teachers talked about it. If he make you blush thinik about something random or just say to yourseld dont blush or try not to think of it. Block it out, thats what ive done. Its all gone now the blushing has disappeared. I hope this has helped keep me posted. Sam
I'm also very alike. Theres this guy that just came into my college. And hes sooo cute. The problem is ive only known him for a day I spoke to him loads though. So im even in an worse situation than you how to turn a straight cute innocent looking guy gay. lol