I hate when I can not find a girlfriend in my area..I need a real girlfriend and I"m kinda of aggravated by it.. It makes me drive further away from guys when I can't find a girlfriend..and I know thats odd..but true.. Too many boys..girls are hott!
I feel very much in the same situation as you, i'm afraid being a guy and quite inexperienced in the matter i cannot help you, but i just wanted you to know that you're not alone.
I echo what franzde said, You are diffenetely not alone Alot of sites have Personals and stuff,this site also has alot of things. This site http://main.bisexual.com/index.php? is big on personals and there are alot of people on that site,from all over. It's hard to meet someone,I'd really put some energy into looking online and also finding out if there are any clubs,bars or support groups in your area anything that's gay/bi friendly there has to be something.If you keep trying you'll meet someone,maybe not tomorrow but eventually. Hang in there, Good Luck btw.. Awesome Guitar! :guitar: Joey Luck is believing your lucky and showing just a little bit of faith.
If you can't find anyone in your area, go somewhere else. Unless that's just not an option for you... =/