Coming out & knowing someones sexuality.

Recently I've come to the conlcusion that I'm Bi.

I'm a guy that has known for awhile that he likes the opposite sex.

Just about a year ago I began [font=&quot]fantasizing about a close male friend.

[/font]I'm 22, and I've been friends with this guy since we were five.

Also a year ago he began acting in a gayish way but he called a "jokie." At first he was just saying things that were definately not straight, but later he began to become forward and rub my leg or put his hand on my shoulder.

His forwardness has gotten more intense, although I've gotten turned on by it, it also kinda scares me how forward he's being; he likes to make people uncomfortable and has admited it! I've started to return the "gayish " forwardness, but I generally stop because it seems to get a little to weird, although again I'm getting turned on! He's even patted my butt, not during the sports, I've done it to him, and he doesn't freak out.

What should I do, how do I know if he is REALLY joking with me, or does like me?

Thank you so much, the hip forums community rocks! :elvis:

 

hey!
just out of interest,
to what extent has his forwardness gotten more intense? Have you ever talked to him about bi-sexuality or experimentation? do either of you have gfs or bfs?

consider the answers to seem of these questions and their implications.

it does seem a little spontaneous how he has only just in the past year started acting in a "gay" way despite you two knowing each other since 5. why don't you try like indirectly talking about homosexuality in casual conversation and see where it leads?

 

Bump, bump, bump.

 

I'm serious people!

 

Sounds like flirting to me,get it out in the open.see if you can get some clarity between you two.Then decide if your gonna go for it,that is if he's not just playing head games. Good Luck Crows

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Yeah that really sounds like he does like you. Just confront him about it or keep going until he stops which I don't think he will

 

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