i had been seeing this guy for 2 weeks & the first week we were together he was very romantic & sweet but the second week he kind of stopped calling & emailing....ever since then we see each other when we go out & he always trys to kiss me & wants to go to his car.....i hate this because i know hes not interested in me & just wants to fuck but sadly i still really like him..... & i cant stop liking him......i keep managing to foget about him but then everytime i see him at a party my heart skips a beat & i want him all over again.... im so crazily atracted to him but i feel really angry at him for not being interested in me.... lastnight i wrote him an email saying at i dont expect a boyfreind but i at least want some freindship & respect befor anything else......he is brazilian, i think that men here seem to have a problem with independent woman, & expressing there feelings (ok like most men but its worse here in brazil)
It doesn't even sound like you are really dating. I say just loose the thought of being with someone like that. If you know you want more for yourself than what he is willing to give don't waste your time.
It seems to me he is only after the sex? But that is just from what I read. The only advice I think I can give from the point of view given is decline his 'offer' until he respects you, and then if he still is only trying to 'fuck' you then drop it and leave him be. Sometimes the best and right thing to do is the hardest, but you must try, otherwise you will get no where with him, you will be simply going around in circles. Hope I helped. And I hope you tell him what you think.
well i told him in my email that i wasnt cool with him aways trying to be with me at partys & never saying anything during the week, he hasnt replied yet.....its just been hard to accept the way he is being now because he was so charming & amazing the first week & now hes being totally different....
He is a user, he was trying to get in your pants the first week and now that hes had it, he will see how much abuse he can dish out and still sleep with you. He may even act nice again if you cut him off but do yourself a favor and get away.
