allright i dont understand this i cant make my girlfriend orgazm iv made other girls have mult orgazm theyv all told me im really good but i cant make the girl i really love orgazm and its buging the hell out of me i askd her and shes never had a orgazm before and she told me shes a little scared but she wont touch her self at home alone wat do i do ?
give her an erotic massage and tell her to concentrate on relaxing. tell her she can't orgasm, just relax. if you're pushing for her to orgasm, you're causing her to tense up. remove the pressure. she needs to be able to relax and concentrate on the sensations.
[font="]yea I don’t pressured her i figure that would cause her not to orgasm iv done everything u can think off light candles all that romantic stuff told her to just relax and don’t think about but nothing it just bums me out knowing she gets me off and works hard at it but i cant get her off [/font]
well it's not your fault..i'm working on giving myself an orgasm...seeing what works for me and then teaching my boyfriend...and its been months...and i still cant figure what gets me
[font="]I was thinking about maybe getting a vibrator for her but I’m afraid she’s going to prefer the vib over me [/font]
most girls that cant have an orgasm its because they were molested or raped as children... for most women to have an orgasm there mind kinda has to be focused in on the act... Not triggered memeories of other shit...
Say what??? No doubt those women that have been assulted or abused may have intamacy issues, but a lot of women have a hard time reaching orgasm and I don't think it's because of rape. Anyway, don't pressure her to have one. If she can't or won't have one alone, then it's nothing that you are doing or aren;t doing. Just let her enjoy being with you and over time she may feel more comfortable, even enough to cum. Maybe she'll decide to try on her own too, but that has to be her choice.
YeaImtheguy- Only 25-30% of women can get clitoral orgasms regularly through intercourse, and another 25% or so can only get them through intercourse if manual clitoral massage is done at the same time. Another 25% can only get orgasms through manual stimulation, and the remaining 20% seldom or never have orgasms. This is just the way they are built, and their sexual libido may also have something to do with it. PM me, The G Spot Master, if you need instruction as to how to give her a G Spot Orgasm, which differs and is more powerful than a clitoral orgasm.
About Cutted's last statistic, it's more like 7-12% who never have orgasms, not sure what the stats are for those who seldom do. And he left out a very important stat, those that orgasm only thru oral stimulation of the clit, this is the most effective, easiest way to make women orgasm. Cutted’s second last stat I believe he means stimulation of the clit either manually or orally, he only mentions ‘manual’ and completely omitted oral. IMHO it's not that hard to make most women cum one way or another. For those who can't cum, they can still enjoy it IF you give them plenty of loving attention, foreplay, etc. And give them plenty of time, like 30-60 minutes. The G-spot is great but cunnilingus should still be the first thing to master. Read this site THE-ART-OF-CUNNILINGUS-or-HOW-TO-EAT-PUSSY not only does it give GREAT advice on how to eat pussy but also HOW to make love in general and that my friends is perhaps the most important thing a guy can do for his women cos even if she doesn’t cum at least she will enjoy it.
liguana - I said about 20% never or seldom had orgasms. So we agree. I intended to include oral in the manual stimulation category.
^ agreed I missed that word on the first read. Read it again and instead of deleting what I already composed I just reworded to clarify between those that had never and those that seldom. I feel they should be different categories as those that never prolly require a very different treatment from those that seldom. How low does the frequency need to be anyhow to be considered seldom, 50%, 20%, less than 10%.
