Why are gay guys so into looks?

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by xxstevenuryevxx, Aug 28, 2007.

  1. xxstevenuryevxx

    xxstevenuryevxx Member

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    It seems like most gay men prefer their partners to be hot and very attractive. What about the not so attractive? It seems that most gay men would snub any gay counterparts if they do not meet the attraction standards. Go into a gay club, and it would be a suprise to see a fat, bald, short, or deformed gay men around. So isnt that a hypocritical act for most gay men. Gay people are discriminated because they are different from the stright individuals but the gays themselves do the same to their own kind. So what is that all about?
    P.S. I look good lol

    Sincerely,
    Steve
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  2. Wim

    Wim Member

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    i think some gay men are so into looks as some sort of justifacation to make up for there partner not haveing a heart or soul you know the dum wited jock like people or just the morbid or depressed people who feel being gay is more of a burden to every one they know i myself could care less what some one looks like as long as they have a good head on there shoulders and a big hearts more of a personality thing then a look thing but if there hot and smart and have a big hear well then extra bonus for me ^^
     
  3. ShadowShifta

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    That may be so in a night club scenario, probably because if someone thought they were ugly etc, and had a low self esteem, i doubt they'd have the courage to go to a gay club. Also, first impressions usually make an impact, and seeming you'd see them before you get to know them, your looks would make some sort of a difference. In the end, your looks can only get you so far.
     
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