Are relationships sometimes harder if you are both really keen on each other?

If both partners are really keen on each other it will be a closer relationship. If they are not so keen the relationship will be less close.

Is it sometimes the case then that there are more arguments and problems in a relationship where both partners are very keen on each other, than relationships where they are less keen?

 

I believe so, yes, and no, it all depends. Me and my fiance fight (argue or whatever) but yet our friends want what we have, and would give anything to have it, because regardless of our problems, for the most part, we are good together, excellent. We have a good thing, but we press each other's buttons time and time again, and it is NORMAL. The whole happily ever after concept is bullshit. Because I believe, if your chain ain't being rattled, you have no room to grow. In other words, a couple has disagreements to challenge themselves and others into growing into their own personal truth, when confronted with obstacles or other viewpoints. Without conflict there would be no reason to move foreward, and for this reason we enrich eachother's lives.

I hope I make sense bc it's one thing to speak the truth and another to live it.