well, technically, umm how should i put it now... I HAVE NEVER HAD SEX AND PROBABLY NEVER WILL HAVE *long and awkward silence* ahem, ok, glad i got it out of my system
I don't know if this counts bt I have no shame I have had sex with ma cuzins friends while the other girls watch even ma cuzin watches from time to time
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 23 - and that was only because I was molested / raped by a nymphomaniac. The reason I had remained a virgin was that I had always been shy & withdrawn, and to a certain degree, still am, but by her being the dominant partner she kicked my natural instincts into motion, and once I had had sex once, it wasn't so difficult in the future, especially once I found that women want good sex just as much as men do - the main thing that stops them, of course, is that they're the ones that have carry the consequences in the case of a little 'accident'. Actually, all of the women I have been with have been either divorced or seperated, and these seem to be the ones with the largest appetites for sexual satisfaction without necessarily looking for a long term relationship. Furthermore, out of all these women, I've only had to worry about contraception with one of them as the others were either on the pill or had undergone hysterectomys. If, like me, you're not so comfortable making first contact in social situations, then perhaps you could consider some of the online Swinger / Dating sites. I use Adult Friend Finder, Adult Hub, and Silver Daddies - all of which I've had a certain amount of success with. Silver Daddies, as the name implies, is for male dating only, but the others are cross gender. Getting back to the original topic of feeling ashamed of your body - I've always found that once we're both naked there are no barriers at all. We're both wanting the same thing, so looks don't matter in the slightest.
First off...Original Poster you are soo sooo cute. I love you body. Im really thin in the waist and have what I think is a big butt, and thighs. Im always worried that they jiggle, or that the strech marks on them are a turn off...but I try so hard to get past it because Ive learned that guys love you naked. No matter what you think of yourself. If they are going to sleep with you they already like your body.
