My husband and I can't have sex for a month because of a D&C (and we haven't for a month preceeding this because of the miscarriage). Is it okay to have anal sex, do you think? Also, would climaxing cause any harm?? I'm pretty sure we have to wait because of risk of infection, not because of anything else... and if we kept it clean, I don't see how it would get infected??? thanks!
Hi spacebattles, You have a genuine concern here so I've posted my reply to another person for you as well so please see below...I hope some of it is of some help, regards:- You've come to the right guy! First of all a little background... I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years, recently engaged..the sex is still fantastic coz of the emotional connection and friendship which was there first! We are both seriously into anal sex...I was always into it and through gentle persuasion and stimulation my girlfriend is at the point where she is now almost addicted to it...it all starts with the mind...suggestive comments allowing her to consider the idea of it before even attempting anything...then massage followed by normal natural lovemaking, bringing her to orgasm many times before my tongue licks lightly over the area...always best if she's turned on first!...if fingers are too much for you try a tongue... Mostly it's in the mind though...if you're new to it and not sure, try reading a variety of erotic stories concerning anal sex and see how it makes you feel...it's one thing if you're boyfriend likes it and you don't you see...obviously my girlfriend and I are at the point where she likes to be spanked...then seriously slammed up the ass regularly, we watch anal porn together etc, but then we are experienced at it and know what we both like, plus she's very submissive and I'm very dominant which is a perfect match sexually... Just a word on the size of cock...definitely use plenty of lubrication...i'm unusually large, very thick shaft with the head of my cock being even bigger than the shaft!...so lubrication is an absolute must...i don't want to hurt her... We've been doing it for years...when I met her she had the tightest anus imaginable...now there's almost a permanent gape due to my size and the force with which I work up to pounding her ass...so it's a good idea to have a few weeks off once in a while. In fact this is what we do...the only time we stop anal is because of this...we wait a few weeks until her anus normalises in size and function... before I slam it the f*ck open again! (such a turn on!) Finally, because of the depth of our relationship, we have never used condoms during anal.. I always like to come in her ass...we are utterly faithful and have no problems in this regard, but you would have to examine your own relationship... There are times when after an anal session my girlfriend asks me to stay inside her and we go to sleep in the spoon position with my cock still inside her...that way if I wake up during the night and I'm usually hard again...i can continue giving her a good anal fuck... I love my petite girlfriend (she's 5'2 i'm 6'0) so we get stares!...I've fucked 3 girls up the ass before her...but now i wouldn't want anyone else...she's got the greatest pair of cheeks imaginable... Sorry for the long post, some of it has been from the guys point of view...but i hope it's helped...if you want to know more e-mail on andyrang@hotmail.co.uk... Kind regards, Andrew
