I think sex is embarrasing. HELP!?

I'm not trying to be mean. No one else is, either.
But what kind of reassurance do you want? I can't say "Oh, you're right, sex IS embaressing," because in my opinion and experience, it isn't. It's only embaressing if you make it so.
If you want reassurance that it ISN'T embaressing...well, that's exactly what I'm giving you! I don't really understand how this is such a big issue in your life if you're not going to actually have sex, though. If you think sex is embaressing and you're not having it, what's the problem?

 

Are you comfortable with your body? That may be why you find sex embarrassing. Just get to know your body better and learn to love yourself.

Peace and love

 

Easier said - at 16 you don't have to be pressured into sex if you are not ready for it. Take your time, and explore this new area of your life little by little. Don't give away your virginity at age 16. Sex is not embarrassing - you are just too young to get deeply involved in it right now. If your friends ridicule you, get new friends with better moral values.

 

babe, dont worry.
i thought sex was embarrassing as well.
it wasnt until i fell in love and things moved along slowly that my views changed.
just take your time. try not you think too much about it. one day you will suddenly find yourself ready.

its alright. your completely normal

 

exactly what memi said
especialy the 1st time sex can be embarrassing if its just sex
dont even worry about sex till your in love & have someone youd concider having sex with
your feelin embarrassed about sex mostly cause the people your around make u feel embarrased about it
when your in love you wont care how embarrassed you feel
you'll just want to feel

 

When I was really young I thought I'd be embarrased too when I first had sex. I wasn't embarrased the first time, we where both really horny and wanting it bad.

 

its not reassurance, like 'oh sex is embarrasing' DUHH. like some nice peopel with common sense told me storys and stuff like that. like that i know im not alone. and thats good. all the rest of you, if you didn't hae something good to say you shouldnt have said anything at all. k thanks

 

Just do what you feel. Don't have sex based on your mind-have sex based on your body

 

i think you should get your brain aquainted with sex, which is safe and private and will allow you to slowly get over teh embarrassment. Look up some erotic literature, movies, (i DONT recommand your average porn) sexy drawings/photos. Look for tasteful things that show sex in a way that makes it beautiful and i think you'll hopefully start to get over the embarrassment.

 

Stop listening to other people, porn, the media, or whatever it is you got your ideas about sex from, and start listening to your heart

"the movements", and "moaning", and "o-faces" are NOT important factors of sex. Its not about "making the right moves" or right sounds or faces, about fulfilling some kind of expectation. Its about connecting to something deeper with someone else, flowing naturally and freely. No-one can tell you how to do it. Itll come from the heart. No-one will laugh if it is sincere, and if they do, theyre not worth knowing

Sex is nothing dirty, or embarassing, or anything to worry about. It liberates, its passion, its about being yourself and being sincere. Forget about rules...youre still young, just enjoy yourself and do what comes naturally, and only when youre ready

 

You're not a freak. It sounds to me like your friend has raging hormones and it's making her horny all the time, whereas you don't have that feeling. It's a problem because you can't really identify with her feelings. So it will feel embarrassing when your friend is constantly talking about it, and by the sound of it, constantly all over some guy.

There's no easy answer to this. Unfortunately you either have to put up with your friend's outbursts, or spend less time with her, maybe with other friends.

Something similar happened to me ( a long time ago, but I can sympathise). My best friend got involved with this girl and they were soon all over each other and fucking at every opportunity. I had no g/f at the time and I really did feel embarrassed when they were all over each other and I was just a bystander.

 

damn so many people can't spell "embarrassing" on here haha.