Hello everyone. It has been a while since I have logged in to the forums, but im back! Well anyway, for the past three weeks, my first ever boyfriend and I have been having sex a lot(with him using a condom. some time ago, a friend nearly got me pregnant due to my carelesness). My boyfriend is very kind to me and has a great personality, but he gets nervous whenever we are in bed together. He's always excited about the idea, but once we actually do it, he gets nervous and doesn't know what to do. I knew that it would take him some time to understand it, but he said he doesnt want to be in bed with me ever again. I don't know if I should break up with him or talk to him. I really like him because he's very nice and is cute, but cannot satisfy my sexual needs. -Soya
hi Soya i think you should talk to him and explained what you want and like and expect of him....if he still don't get the idea then fine you another guy cause sex in a relationship ain't everything but it means alot
why is he so nervous all the time? I mean if you like him alot, work on the relationship but straight up if you aint getting no dick then go to somebody that knows how to give it.
If hes so nervous like that just talk to him and if he doesnt change the way he feels then find someone who can satisfy your needs. Sex isnt what relationships are all about but it is very important. If you only like him and dont love him then i would end it now before you get to close and then it will be even harder to leave him and you will never get satisfied.
well i guess its up to you to decide if you have the patience and time to teach him and comfrot him in bed til hes adept and not so nervous, or if you dont have the patience nor time to teach someone how your body works and if thats the case, you need to break up. this is all contingent on his willingness to learn of course
Were you his first time? Also, how does he feel about you having sex for the first time with your friend instead of him? Does he feel insecure about that? If you really think this guy is worth it, then talk to him first. Sex, like all other human activities, gets better with practice. If not, well there are other guys and girls out there.
