Bye for now

Well, youre just going to have to take adv.. i mean get me drunk to find out!

 

Deviate......do you look into yourself and get perspective in the same way you appear to be able to deduct important things about other people's lives on here? It's just a question- take it how you wanna take it.

I'm always thinking but my mind is not always made up.

 

Yeah, i do that all the time. I dont take that the wrong way at all. Yes, I'm aware I am fucked up just like the rest of the humans, maybe more. I'm also aware of my own denials and denial in general. I never said my mind was made up one way or the other. I just didnt blindly overlook the evidence I mentioned left by both of them. And the fact that all of their friends are so quick to defend them to me is also just another indication...

Sorry if I'm being an asshole about this, but I think emotional control/domination is bullshit. I'm not trying to cause harm. And if she didn't want varying opinions, then maybe she shouldn't have posted about all of this publicly..

 

Not an asshole and I'm in a great mood. I think a lot but mostly about my own life. I leave weird blogs on here and I think and I'm always looking for health in everything- espiecially relationships..... I refuse to really comment on what you said about the OP's relationship. I have no idea but I know she says she's happy so that is a good thing.

Not about her but about people in general- the most you know people... or I guess I should say, the more I know people the more I keep my thoughts to myself until I need to say something. I'm not sure what my point is but keep thinking and think about what you say... yadda

arty:

 

ps- i have no idea what she posted that makes her want to leave or is too personal. I've been wrapped up in my own life and mind lately but it happens to the best of it.

The interwebz a funny thing yo.

 

Well, I don't know what led to her departure, but she will surely be missed, and I hope we h aven't seen the last of her.

Hope all works out well in time.

 

Yeah... she'll be back. She just needs to regroup. I do it all the time... I just don't post about it (not a cut on those who do).

 

i think our lyns will be just fine. she's under a lot of stress, but she loves her man. and in any relationship there's some friction to get through.

 

I agree completely, and I should probably do that more. There are two things working against me in that dept though, first I'm from dc where we are generally blunt or rude. Second I want to be a lawyer, which means I might just be abrasive...

 

goodbye best friend

 

Nobody asked her to stop posting here.

 

i never doubted it for a second.

 

Just and FYI...I am not at all controlled and I did not just meet some guy off the internet and move here. We met in person 3 years ago and did not date then because I was with someone.
And as far as abused or controlled...hardly. My fiance loves that I have a career, always wants to hear about my day, didn't bitch that I put 140 dollars on his credit card for highlites today...if he was controlling he would not want me to look good and he certainly would not want to pay for it. He didn't ask me to move here. he put huge ring on my finger without expecting me to move here. I haven't been bitched at for working long hours or having the possibility of working saturdays. I'm going home on the three day weekend we have here next month instead of spending it here with him-he never bitched about it and is happy for me. He does his share of the housework, even when I wasn't working. He always takes the trash out. He says how beautiful am a million times a day hes awesome
I have been with controlling men and even one who was physically violent...Andy is nothing like them.

 

and he is hot for you ....


I'm sad because we just met and now you're leaving... I feel somehow responsible
:leaving:

 

Well! It looks like i'm a fuckin asshole!

And I'm a really high asshole, that smiley is making me laugh so much. It always makes me laugh, but right now its so fucking funny!!!