I've always been under the impression that it involves lots of howling, spanking, fur, tails, and bananas.
dirty, hot, filthy, sweaty, dirty, animalistic, dangerous, frustrating, uplifting, dirty, gritty, hot, shaking, dirty sexy monkey love. :X Gotta love it.
lol. i did, however, get over a 15 year old fobia based on bad personal experience. TOTALLY over it. like fucking awesome over it.