Few years ago I met a nice girl one summer over a 2 week period. We were teens and I was eager to have sex with her. We were messing around a lot and I could have fucked her but she was crying that she felt too young to go all the way and I felt guilty and felt some sort of love/lust relation to her, or maybe it was simply I felt a special bond cuz she was the first girl I was with. I think also I was not ready yet and had this madonna/whore complex about her and possibly myself. Anyway, since then we just wrote e-mails to each other on and off. She even said that she didn't love me, just had special feelings for me as a friend..quite normal considering it was just 2 weeks... still, I have mixed feelings about her. Though I regret having not fucked her, though sometimes I feel that would have been a mistake, that would have affected me emotionally (first time and all) and it was tough forgetting her, mostly cuz she had a fantastic body and you dont want to loose such a gem once you find it. Anyway, the other day she says she's planning to visit me for a week, just as friends.. though she has special feelings for me... So, I'm thinking if one week is enough to know each other and become more serious as a couple, hopefully love... Or, don't be an idiot and fuck her this time. Cuz love may not blossom and I would have wasted another golden opportunity. What to do..
Look on the bright side. Chicks usually get fat once they hit their mid to late 20's so it won't be too terrible of a loss considering.
1 week is too short a time to know each other, regardless how many e-mails or chatting sessions you've had, and there are no gaurantees in love... If she's good looking then go ahead and fuck her. Obviously her personality doesn't appeal to you right? You're just special friends anyway and nothing will come more of this. Unless she wáctually tells you she wants something more. On the other hand: She may want to check you out and if you're nice maybe you can hope that in a distant future you'll hook up as a couple, I don't know. But remember that all women get old and sag. So choose someone you love for who they are. Happy fucking!
