alright well I pierced mine like 4 days ago and its still red and hurts. does anyone know how long it should be healed by?
A LOT longer than 4 days....that is if it ever even heals properly. http://wiki.bmezine.com/index.php/Surface_piercing
did you have it pierced or do it yourself? what sort of jewellery are you using? majority of these will reject. sorry to burst ya bubble. especially if youre not using a surface bar. it wont heal for a long time, but id say if its red and sore, your body doesnt want it