So how should I aproach this?

I know I posted here about seeing someone which I am going to do hopefully soon ... but for some reason or other I'm having a hard time trying to tell my mom I want to see someone. Last time I told her she kind of shrugged it off cause I guess shes busy. But I don't know I'm a little embarrassed to tell her cause its either she thinks she can solve my problem or she just doesn't believe me (or at least it feels that way)

I remember that at one point in June I really just got to a point where I couldn't take anyone at all. I just wanted to waste away and become part of my bed, to look back on those weeks freaks me out. I just can't believe I came so close. My mom took care of me but I guess at some point she became upset and just wanted me to get over it. I'm not trying to say my mom is a horrible women, infact shes the exact opposite. I guess I can understand where she was coming from, just wanted me to smile instead. I don't know what I would have done without her in those weeks.... it could have swung a whole other way.

But when I told her that maybe her suggestion of seeing someone was a good idea .... she didn't act upon it and to be honest I want to believe shes busy and I know she is... but I dunno I think she could have taken me. Which leads me to believe she doesn't think I have something I need to deal with, or as if she think its all for attention and its not. And I want to tell her ONCE more that I want to see someone but I'm scared. I know this is really childish but it brings me to tears .... I just don't know what to say...

Any advice on how I should approach this? I know this is a little childish ..and I dont want to seem like I'm complaining about my mom because truly I don't mean it that way .. I love her so much, shes probably one of the only people I'll always be able to hold on to.

 

your mom sound like a really good person and i don't think anyone on here would say any differnt about her...but just set her down and really explained how you are feelin and that it not for attention and that you really need some help......have a good heart to heart talk with her and i think she will understand that it time to get you some help..........good luck but i know it will work out fine for you ..........please post back and keep us up to date remember we are your freinds and we do care for you

 

Sometimes all it takes is a few minutes set aside to maturely discuss the issue with her. I'm sure she will understand it most if you're calm, rational and mature about the situation. Let her know exactly how you feel, and what you feel needs to be done; but also respect her enough to listen to her personal opinion on the topic as well. Last but not least, don't be afraid to disagree - you're in the clear as long as you keep it rational and mature .

I'm sure that soon enough, you'll come to a reasonable conclusion. Good luck with that, and I believe in you