Girls, Would you have anal sex with a guy who wouldn't let you fuck him with a strapon or a dildo at some point? I had anal sex with my wife first, but sometime after she fucked me in the ass with a strapon. First, the prostate stimulation was amazing by itself, very intense, but it was also very exciting and emotionally powerful for us both for her to take me and give me amazing pleasue, and for me to give myself to her. But also being fucked in the ass made me much better when I penetrated her ass afterwards, since i really understood the need to go slow and be sensitive, be careful with plenty of lube, etc. Anal can be an amazing physical and mental experience, but in the interest of sexual equity and to make the men a better lover when it comes to anal sex, it seems men should agree to take it themselves. Plus they'd probably enjoy it a lot!! Any girls or guys agree?
i absolutely agree that anal can be a very amazing experience, for both the giving and receiving ends, whether male or female. and taking it in the ass most definitely enhances one's ability to give it, since you have the advantage of empathy, or being in someone else's shoes and knowing how it feels. i have to say also that it is terribly sad that so many people reject or even scorn anal sex (particularly male-receiving) because of the whole "it makes you gay!" thing. it's such bull crap, because i've been taking it up the ass from girls for awhile now, and i can safely say i have NEVER been attracted to nor considered sex with males. the only thing that makes you gay is a romantic attraction to the same sex, and no sexual activity you do will ever turn you gay. my opinion on give and take is this - people are entitled to their opinions, but don't knock it till you try it. so if you as a guy take it in the ass and don't like it, but your girl likes it in the ass, by all means keep on fuckin her. at least you tried it once. however, guys who want to fuck girls asses but won't take it in return at least once are pigs and should be castrated. girls who will take it in the ass but aren't willing give it to guys are just ridiculous wimps and should be slapped. bottom line, fair is fair, and equity in the bedroom is just plain common courtesy.
good point, I forgot about the angle of girls who take it but won't consider giving it to guys. That just seems fair and open as well. At be open to least trying it once
Well For Myself I Dont Want To Fuck A Guy , But Im Very Intrested In Getting It From Behind, I Just Hope It Doesnt Hurt Much.
If I were to be with a guy, I'd probably do it. I don't think I'd necessarily be willing to recieve anal myself, as I don't like being in a 'submissive' position. That may sound stingy, but, whatever.
You articulated everything so well. I agree on every point. It is funny though that I have met several girls who were very open to receiving anal but less interested in giving. I was with one of these girls and convinced her to try it once. So she went for it but it just didn't do anything for her. So I guess the point is that girls should try the other way at least once too because they may find the dominant position appealing.