Okay, I'm not one to go for older men. But I was at a starbucks and I saw this tall lean man with grey hair and grey/blue eyes walk in the coffee shop in a nice business suit. He had his ears pierced as well. he had this ora about him that was soo hot. I couldn't keep my eyes off him. I was suprised I wasn't drooling all over the place. He looked about mid-late 40's Ever happend to you?
Ive seen some older men that looked attractive but i have never once almost drooled over a man that age. I think its gross to even think about getting with an older guy thats that old but i used to have a friend who slept with this 30 yr old on a regular basis and i never knew what she saw in him.
What is an "older man or woman" is all relative. To an 18 year old woman, a 30 year old man is "old". When I was 19, I spent a week in Europe learning everything I ever wanted to know about sex from a 28 year old woman. The best week of my life. To me, then, she was an "older woman". Now, looking back, she seems awfully young.
Yeppers. Some great sex I had had when in my early 20's and even into my early 30's has been with some adventurous older men. Sexy? Yes most of them are. I find if I want someone sexual openminded, I go for someone mid 40's to early 50's. One boyfriend I had could stay hard for hours-made me sore more than a few times; he was about 44yrs old. I like older men because I can learn from them as well as teach-if they are willing.
lol, I'm 47 and open minded and have always fared well with ladies- if anyone wants to test the speculation that started this thread- message me : )
Old dudes are hot. Don't know why. But Bruce Willis... for some reason, that old fart of a bald guy is hawt as balls. There's this guy that works at a different Spencers than me, and he's sexy in that same weird shaved head way. But he's only like, 32 or something. One of my other friends is 32, and he's always been strangely attractive to me... So I guess I like old dudes. Which is funny, because I'm currently dating an 18 year old that looks like he's twelve.
You are describing a man who has the trappings of money, status, and power. It is no wonder you were attracted to him. I wonder if he would have done you if you had approaced him?
90PacesWest- The O.C. is the heart of conservative Republicanism in California, and I am a liberal with an "Impeach Bush" sticker on my car. I can't stand those phony, greedy Bushites, who only care about getting rich, and who support an unwinnable war that they or their kids don't have to fight. Most older guys have much more sexual experience than younger guys, and some of them are much more interested in pleasuring their women than getting themselves off. I have always found that my own pleasure is enhanced by bringing my woman to the point of orgasm. That comes from perhaps 10,000 times I have made love with a woman. I think I have gotten it down by now.
There is nothing I'd love more than to get rich and win an unwinnable war. But this isn't about politics. Everybody thinks they're right, anyway. It's like telling Eazy E that skanks aren't cool.
It's not the age...For me, I think its how he carries himself. I've never been with a guy older than his twenties, but I think a touch of gray hair on a guy that keeps himself in shape is hot. If he approached me with the right amount of self-confidence - oh yeah, I could.