if a guy is coming on to me? I was with this guy once, and he told me about being at this bar that I knew was frequented by gays, and he told me that he was at the urinal and they guy next to him said, "Mmmm, nice one." I think that he was coming on to me, althought I'm mostly straight. I've never been approached by anyone before or since. How do guys let other guys know that they're bi or gay? Are there catch words, or do they just talk about sex and the discussion might turn to where they discuss preferences?
I don't know of any catchwords. There's the foot tapping thing in the restroom I guess, like sen Larry Craig got in trouble for. Other than that I think most gays or bis that are comfortable with themselves just tell you your cute. Or they might ask you if you fool around. If they are scared and they are trying to hit on you there's no telling how they'll go about it so you just have to play it by ear.
Thanks gc. I'm pretty naaive for the most part. I'll miss things that are obvious to others sometimes.
