When I have sex with or without a condom, wether the girl is really tight, a bit tight, or loose, the same thing always happens, and it makes my sex life horrible. I'm not circumcised, so when I fuck, my skin pulls back too much, and that little wing thing under the knob will tear. It's always in the same spot, and it's a 4 mm long x 2 mm wide cut, and it fucking stings. It hurts to pull back the skin to wash it, and it takes about 4 days to a week to heal. I put baby oil gel on it, so that it doesn't hurt as much, cuz it's loobed up. There's no way I am getting chopped at this age. The only option would be to go to the doctors and get them to cut off that wing thing, but they would have to be careful about the veins. Anyone else have this problem. It really frustrates me, and it bothers my g/f's even more because we could only have sex like once a week when I do have a g/f, because it hurts to much to have sex when it's not fully healed.
Blood - by the "little wing thing" I think you mean the frenulum, the stringy thing in the "inverted v" on the underside of the glans. You could have too short a frenulum, which tears when you have the foreskin pulled back. Consult a doctor to see if a frenuloplasty is necessary. It is an outpatient operation which may cure your problem. Don't wait - do it now.
I think Cutted gave you the right advice. If you want a sex life there's not much you can do as far as positions and stuff. Take yourself to a doctor, I'm not sure if it's common, but I know that it isn't abnomal. The name of the issue escapes me at the moment, but you aren't alone, and it can be taken care of. luck to you
Im not cut, and my skin has never really came close to tearing. And I have had sum rough ass sex. I would just get it over with and get that part cut or something. Better to do it now and enjoy things after a couple of weeks vs. going thru this the rest of your life
If she's wet enough, you should still be able to do what you're doing without it tearing. Ever tried it with lots of lube? I don't think you'd have a problem if you did. I can only see it being an issue for you if things were tight and dry.