There's this guy I've known for about 2 1/2 years. He's one of my good friends. We're really close, and know eachother really well. And about a year ago, I really felt like he was showing some serious feelings for me. In all honesty, I got a little creeped out because I put him on that "just friends" list. Now, another year later and I'm in love. There's no guy like him and I've never been this weak for someone. It's like things are just weird now sometimes. He doesn't flirt as much, he's more discrete about things, but he still shows affection. Like he'll always ask who i'm with, who's calling, and seems to get jealous about guys, but who knows if that's anything. I just wonder why all this time has gone by, and nothing has been said. I mean all of our friends wonder, but me and him just seem to ignore everyone else. He's always been the type to go from girl to girl to, and I'm definetly not the one to be with someone like that. I just wonder if maybe he's not ready for some thing a little more serious? I don't feel like it's going anywhere. I know he loves me, he's told me, but we never specified in which way we love eachother. I need help, and I've heard, you should just talk to him. But it's really hard for me, especially at this point, as things are a little hazy.
