I am very big into experimentation, and recently my Girlfriend, has been trying different anal play with me. She recently bought a vibrator (small and slender but a good fair size for newbies to anal. ) and has tried using it on me. Now I find with anal penetration its very strange. It feel good --- Than nothing -- than good --- than nothing, and it feels very good when it gets far up there, but sometimes its almost like an intense pleasure, but not in a good way. Like too intense, like the first time you tried to masterbate or rub your penis against somthing when you were a kid, and then you start to have a very strange kind of orgasm, where its good, but not, because it makes it soo hard to continue touching even moreso then it would now. It hurts. If anybody remembers those times, then thats how I feel. Its like its good when it gets high up there but I often have to pull away and get kind of spastic. Also I find it very hard to stay hard. I almost always grow limp, making it impossible to be jerked at the same time. Please any advice would be appreciated as to how I can make my Anal experience worthwhile. If my explinations made no sence, dont worry about it I just need to know how to make it feel great. :nopity: :jester:
Good afternoon, Lizzard. Glad to hear you and your lady are experimenting. My husband of 12 years and I enjoy anal play frequently, so I have a few ideas for you. First off, good lubrication is ESSENTIAL! And I'm not talkin' KY or Vaseline. I mean a good quality anal lube...Hustler makes my favorite, it contains hemp seed oil. If she is as adventurous as it would seem, your girlfriend should spend a lil while teasing you...rimming, touching, then inserting just one finger, and working to relax you. Her nails should be very short for this (hubby trims and files mine...which is oddly arousing to me), and latex gloves are a must for us. The more you play around like this, the more relaxed you will get. As far as toys, work up in size slowly. And, if you really want to get off, she needs to find your prostate. When she inserts that gloved finger, with you on your hands and knees, it should be about 3 inches inside, on the bottom side, and is about the size of a walnut in general, and will swell with your arousal. She should rub gently back and forth, and as you want, with more firm pressure. This should give you more pleasure than you are so far experiencing, and if it doesn't, anal play may not be for you. My best advice is to try these things, and do some research...there's a lot of good information on the net, and keep experimenting, slowly. It takes a while for the anus to get conditioned to sexual stimulation and penetration, but when it does..........woo hoo! Good luck!
