I'd ask the people in the love and sex forum, but they are all sex crazed maniacs!!! But yeah, the other day my girlfriend asked "Where ya headed?" and I mentioned jokingly that I was going out to have sex with my new love toy. To which she replied, "That's fine. I know I haven't been satisfying your needs lately. As long as its sex and just sex, thats fine." (All is true, our love life has been nearly non-existant) To which I replied "Uh... are, are, are you serious?!" To which she said "Yeah, I really am"... I don't know if I'd ever do it... but now that the options there and I am in dire need for some lovin'... I don't know, I do want to explore but.. I DONT KNOW! I feel like this is one of those situations where girls act all "No, that's cool, that's totally fine" then if I actually did something, she'd flip out on me and cry and blahdity blah blah blah! So is that cheating? Is that wrong? Opinions? Please?
Well I'd find out why shes not paying as much attention to yours and her sex life. But if she gives you the "ok" then i'd just test it out, if she freaks out explain she gave you the go-ahead. I don't wanna say shes cheating or anything but maybe thats why she said its fine? I'm not sure I'm best for explaining this though
Yeah, I've thought that already but I don't think it's true. She's basically lost all sex drive, and I know sometimes thats because they are getting it somewhere else but I don't think that's they case, or atleast I hope. I don't know, we are just having a really rocky patch right now.. Thanks for the response!
Yea, you should try and divert that sexual attention to her. I don't know if you have tried talking dirty to her, girls (as a general rule, not *all* girls) get turned on when you talk about sex. You might need to do something to get her going again though - like take her somewhere kind of public so the risk factor is higher. Just things that have worked in my experience, best of luck.
I say if ya need to find something different go for it... people don't understand that theres two needs.. sexual and emotional... and sometimes ya need to go somewhere else to find one of these two things... she might not be cheating on you.. she may just be open minded and understanding enough to know that he sexual expertise is below what you need personally... I don't see anything wrong with an open relationship as long as you understand that what you are doing is purely for sexual pleasure.. with no emotional attachment to the sex...
Well I personally wouldnt do it because I bet it will come to bit you in the ass. Im sure once she finds out she probably will get pissed and then your relationship will just go downward from there.
